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Love, lust or something else?
BillieTheBot
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This is essentially a follow-up on this thread that I did a few weeks back. As I said at the time, we met up and decided to make a go of it. Anyway, we've been together for only a short time, but I'm already feeling something about her that I have never felt before. A side of me is excited by developments, but my more pragmatic side's asking whether all this is a bit sudden. I mean, it seems like I only met her yesterday, and already, I'm feeling something.
Am I being stupid? Can you really start falling for someone about three weeks after becoming a couple? Or is this just something else? Anyone got any advice, because I'm completely stumped!
Am I being stupid? Can you really start falling for someone about three weeks after becoming a couple? Or is this just something else? Anyone got any advice, because I'm completely stumped!
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Butterflies and stuff are totally normal, sometimes if you just connect with somebody then things just feel really wicked and you have to try and enjoy it while it's there.
Glad things are going alright.
You are just falling man, let yourself go and I hope for you it will be the one for you...
There is no recipe for love, just jump in and enjoy...
I fall in love with here in less than 2 weeks man and she did in 3 weeks and we have put barrier cos we both came out of some hard breakup with the peple we were married too... Look 8 months later we are still together, more happy than ever trying for kids and all...
Don't get me wrong, sometimes you fall in love quick ad get crushed, but hey that's life and it doesn't happend everytime, you usually feel as well how much people love you... There is big cance that if yu didn't feel the love coming from her you wouldfall that easily...
Start worrying when things feel bad
Don't worry - just enjoy it
You're not being stupid, though my answer might've been a bit different a month or so ago, since I'm finding myself in the exact same situation (well maybe not exact, but you know what I mean) at the moment.
Just enjoy the ride, no one can tell you where you'll end up but I think everyone would agree you can have a lot of fun and learn a lot about each other on the journey. These are the best times, when you can't define exactly what it is you're feeling... and it just goes to show that you don't need to put a word to the emotions you're experiencing, as long as you can recognise and appreciate them. Affection for/loving/caring about another person and having them feel the same way about you is an absolute gift, whatever name you give it, so treasure it and enjoy every second. I know I am
I was with my ex for 3 weeks and he told me he loved me, i felt the same too so i told him i loved him too. It was great and really scary at the fact we only been together for a short time. I was with him for 3yrs and we had a gorgeous son. Don't worry about feeling something so early on follow your heart
sauce xx
But year... falling for someone in a matter of weeks is pure human nature, we want to feel loved by someone, we want comfort, we want to b cared by someone... visa versa too.
My advise is just allow your feelings to develop. Stop comparing them with everyone else as they more likely to be the same as how anyone else would feel. But then again your feelings are special to you. Be open to your partner about how she feels or else you'll feel stupid. I mean, you'll be thinking... do I like her too much or... am I moving to fast. 9/10 chances she will feel exactly the same or even more.
So let your feelings flow and learn from this experience and most of all enjoy!
Yes we broke up about 2yrs ago just before i had my son. I don't regret any time with him as if it wasn't for him i wouldnt have my gorgeous son
Sauce xx
i love him now like..most of the time. :grump: