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Need help now guys...this is not good...
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This is not good...I was all ready for my girlfriend to come home... but apparently last night one of my so-called friends e-mailed her and told her that I was flirting tons since she was gone, and that he just wanted to tell her. But of course made an effort to convey that, "He didn't want to start shit though..."
I don't know what I've been doing, I'm really scared now...and I don't know what to tell her. I don't know what to say because I didn't know I was... and she's really hurt, she says she's not mad though...and she doesn't act mad...but I'm about ready to throw up over here...
I don't know what to do... or what to say...
I don't know what I've been doing, I'm really scared now...and I don't know what to tell her. I don't know what to say because I didn't know I was... and she's really hurt, she says she's not mad though...and she doesn't act mad...but I'm about ready to throw up over here...
I don't know what to do... or what to say...
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Yup. And if he was a real 'friend' he wouldn't say anything like that. Talk to your girlfriend and explain the situation to her.
I talked to others he mentioned in the message, and one said that he didn't agree at all, and the other mildly agreed, but said it was wrong to do.
It sounds like the sender is crooked. And a friend no-longer.
I've re-assured her, and she still trusts me. But she's still worried and very, very sad. What I failed to mention also in the first message, is that she is currently in Germany, coming home in 5 days.
I'm trying to let her know it's alright, but there's really no way I can tell her for sure that it is. This asshole has ruined the rest of her trip, no doubt.
What else can I say to her? I feel sooo bad, even if I really didn't even do anything. :eek2:
I don't think you should let it go till she beleves you, because otherwise she's just gonna think that your mate is telling the truth.
Yeah, I love catching my boyfriend saying and doing sweet things thatI'm not meant to know about. That's reassuring that you're actually thought of when you aren't there.
But yeah, show her this board and the messages you wrote about missing her, then she'll understand.
And once all this is over, give your friend some more beatings.