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it's all very complicated so i'll try my best to explain
1) my ex (only by a few days) he showed me what is was to love someone for everything the whole person and in him showing love to me he made me more confident in myself. we was going out for 5 months but i only realised i was in love just over a month ago. when we first started getting serious we both said at our age we didnt know what love was we was too young to understand the concept. but as we got closer together we realised something was happening and it wasnt lust any more it had grown i was sad if i hadnt seen him for a day but happy again within seconds of seeing him.
2) this is a total different kind of love it a person that i can probably never fully love as they live so far away from me. it's like a friendship love but it goes alot deeper and if he lived here with me or i lived up ther with him it would be LOVE. but it cant so in away i stop myself from feeling more for him but i cant stop that little it bit more than friendship.
sorry if i bored you with all of that just need to get some stuff of my chest after the past few days ive had <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
love is a great thing when everythings good but when everything is bad in the realationship or the relationship ends and your still in love it's horrible
I have truly been in love twice.
The first love lasted almost five years, but she felt unready to fully commit, and wondered what parts of life she might have been missing.
The second lasted 12 years in all, though the last two were unrequited love, and horrible.
Unrequited love is the worst though. That was my first (and only) love. The funny thing is, my head tells me I'm over him, but my heart can't bring itself to believe that. I see him sometimes, walking in the high street, and it all comes flooding back. At 15, it seems silly but I don't want to be in love, lust or anything else ever again. I just don't want to experience that hurt. I honestly don't think I could handle it.
I hate seeing people and knowing I can't have them. It just takes the piss! Oh well. My mates continually try and set me up with male friends. They mean well bless their hearts, but I don't know if I want to be in a relationship.
Me and 3 of my mates were having a 'girlie chat' earlier on today. Out of the 4 of us, only 1 of us is attached. The single ones all agree with that 1st sentence you wrote in the above quote. And the second sentence obviously! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Trust me darling, once you are, you get used to it PDQ (Pretty Damn Quick) <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
when me and my girlf split for a week it was hell not being with her it felt so wierd when i was single with out her i wasnt bothered but to ahve loved and then lost its so much harder.
Yeah it is from experience <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> O well, never mind. Have resolved to be upbeat about status. (Yeah right!)
*hugs*
The feelings of heart-broken is more worse ..can make u cry or depress and thinking wat did u do wrong that make this happen.
Well ..i have been through it and have fallen in love twice ..and now i am very happy with the one i have now .He is my Mr.right.
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