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Does It Ever Get Old?
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Ok, I'm just curious, and I think about things too much, but I was just wondering...
Does having sex ever get boring? Does it never get to the point where you've just exhausted every position and every little kinky idea?
What about with a long term partner? Do you ever get bored?
I'm almost 19, and still a virgin so I've got a lot of fun yet to have! (YAY!) but I'm not the shyaway type and I think I'd like to do everything there is to do. But will there ever be a point where I just get bored?
Does having sex ever get boring? Does it never get to the point where you've just exhausted every position and every little kinky idea?
What about with a long term partner? Do you ever get bored?
I'm almost 19, and still a virgin so I've got a lot of fun yet to have! (YAY!) but I'm not the shyaway type and I think I'd like to do everything there is to do. But will there ever be a point where I just get bored?
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With my current boyfriend, over a year down the line it isn't boring, and we haven't even started using anything other than ourselves (yet ), so I would say that unless both partners are unwilling to try new things, or wont admit to there being a problem, that it will never get boring.
If it did, you'd just have to be more imaginative.
And if all else fails, just abstain for a while.
Yeah, I definitely agree. My sex life when I first got one was rubbish, though it probably seemed just fabulous at the time.
It gets better whether you're with a succession of people OR someone long-term, imo. In the first instance you get to have varying amounts of success and fun judging if you're sexually compatible with the person - and you learn a lot... well, sometimes. In the second case, there's a lot to be said for really knowing someone's body, what they like, don't like and them for you.
Obviously you could run out of things to try, or at least that you're willing to try. But repetition isn't necessarily a bad thing when you're still getting satisfaction out of it... it's generally boring sex that's bad, not repetitive sex since they don't always go hand in hand in ruining a sex life. If that makes sense
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