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I need more female friends down here. I only have two, and when they are busy there is no one else to hang about with. There arent any social groups to go to around here, or so it seems. My job didnt work out, so the meeting people there thing is out the question.
Im just feeling a bit down about it all, im fed up of male company all the time (i live with my fiancee and 3 flatmates)
Its doing my head in. Argh.
Im just feeling a bit down about it all, im fed up of male company all the time (i live with my fiancee and 3 flatmates)
Its doing my head in. Argh.
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i can relate to you as well about living with boys all the time :P last year at uni i was put into halls with 5 boys (me the only girl). got a bit repetitive and isolating at times, when theyre all watching footie or doing guy stuff (ie. porn in one of their rooms)
maybe join a few clubs? join a club that you know will have mostly girls going to and you can meet some people that way! if you go to the gym, you could even meet someone as well!! if youre doing the same activity, then just say hello and get things started from there!!!
there is a womens only gym around the corner from me, but i cant afford to pay the yearly or even the monthy subscription cos im completely broke atm.
I'm not really sure what to suggest other than a new hobby, or hanging out in new places where people with similar musical taste (or whatever) go. Maybe try and get to know some girlfriends or female friends of your existing, male mates and flatmates. Then you've got some common ground, and they may well be into similar things.
Ta for the comments people, ive taken em all on.
Also ive never been one to make friends easily, people tend to think im stuck up because when i first meet them i hardly say anything, but thats because im shy. Thats the reason my job didnt work out as well, becuase people thought i was 'difficult'.
I have good friends but since leaving uni they are scattered all over the UK
I just want people to "hang out" with
But im not that good at making friends either, im really quiet to begin with too. And not everyone will give me enough time to come out of my shell
Not really helping you, but just thought i'd sigh along with you