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It is interesting that your boyfriend "forbids" you to pleaseure yourself when he can't pleasure you. Have you asked him why he doesn't want you to masturbate?
Do you object to him masturbating?
I agree with Strubbles S :"you said you did not have the urge, but I think you will after you hadn't had sex for some time"
You could phone him or text him and tell him that your are masturbating...go into detail...he might find it a turn on...
I'm sorry that you have to be apart from him for the summer. Think how good the reunion will be though
cq
I don't really object to himm doing because he has told me in the past that now that we are having sex it isn't nearly as enjoyable. But he has this "thing" about anyone or thing besides himself being inside of me ( i.e. certtain vibrators) which is why he is so frimly aganist it
It sounds like youre considering it, and if hes requesting it of you, and you dont mind, then make a pact with him. I think its sweet in a way, although sometimes what can be a sweet little bit of jealousy can sometimes become controlling and possesive, but as long as the line isnt crossed.......
Its really up to you though whether you masturbate or not, but its also up to you whether you go with your boyfriends requests or not.
If my boyfriend asked me not to masturbate then I wouldnt, but maybe thats just me.
If the sex is good and often masturbating is not needed imo...
And frankly I rather have sex than wanking...
Wanking is good for when you're 14 or have a shit sex life...
Well I don't plan on it. And we have since worked it out. Ity seems neither one of us desire to masturbate since we'd much rather have each other so we are planning to visit each other while we are living apart to 'indugle'
He would like that but it was hard enough for me to want to be naked to ask me to be 'revealing' in photos is a little bit too much. I don't think he is insecure at all since receltly i have had at least 2 orgasms each time we have had sex it is more like he is possive and doesn't want to share me... I'm guessing. But it will work out and it will just be better when we do get to be together
They're nodding at different times!!! AAAAAAARRRRRRRGGHH!! :crazyeyes
But back to the Q
I think its unfair that he asks you not to, but you don't want to so eh. It will become a problem if youdo want to though, and him causing a fuss.
I never used to masturbate before the boy. He put the idea in my head. Its good when we miss eachother and either have phone sex, or just tell eachother.
Getting myself off infront of him turns that weenie into a "woah!"nie
hehe
Not every man masturbate...
And you can be in touch with your body without masturbating...
I don't agree with that at all.
and yes Love:TheRedOfTheRose i do suggest we have a nice black and red cermony(helena video)
Well, that's my point of view, I really don't see what's so good about wanking...
Can I wear the pretty dress? :flirt:
With a good imagination a wank can be great!
only if you the great dance
from other commenta about mutual wanking i have alwasy been to embarrased to do that for some reason.
AV xx