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need a rant
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ive been with my boyfriend for almost four months. i try and keep a good balance between seeing him and seeing my friends. the relationship is serious and i love him more than anyone ive ever met. but recently all my friends have stopped inviting me to places coz they think im gonna be with rob, but half the time im not. im normally sat in my room online when another mate says "oh why arent you out with others?". well im not out coz i didnt fucking no about it,
sorry just needed a rant!
why dont they invite me out anymore? they all get on with my bf really well, so it doesnt make sense.
sorry just needed a rant!
why dont they invite me out anymore? they all get on with my bf really well, so it doesnt make sense.
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Frankly they should understand that you are in love and that you want to spend time with your man as well...
If it continues just have a chat with them about it...
Talking can often fix a lot of troubles..
to be fair, im feelin quite pissed off right now, especially seein as i suggested a girls nite last nite and no one wanted to know
That is quite cheeky and the type of thing that would piss me off too. I was gonna suggest you arrange some nights with them but it seems you've already tried.
I'm in my first relationship ever, we've been going out for nearly a year, and my "friends" act like this too. I dont understand why they cant be happy for me. 2 of them dont like him either, which makes matters worse.
They don't invite me to stuff anymore, and dont understand that I only get to see him on Fridays. They think I'm always with him.
The other annoying thing is that they always drink when they hang out, and I have a personal problem about drinking and drunk people, and going to random parties. I dont want to be responsible for them screwing themselves up.
However, 2 of them dont understand why I wont get drunk, and dont understand why I wont tell them. My actual good friend told me they (the 2) were thinking about spiking my drink to get me drunk. I am not happy.
So I've moved on to not bothering about hanging with them. I'd rather hang with other friends who are nice to him and who understand without being bitches.
I hate girls