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It is confusing but I think the joint opinion is regardless of your relationship status you should be able to pleasure yourself...
maybe you should tell your lovely sounding boyfriend that then
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and more so, that whilst in a relationship it can be fun to pleasure yourself in front of your partner!
For sure!
I've never heard of anyone deliberating the question of masturbation so much before; I thought people either did it... or didn't/lied about it
Why worry about it now, anyway? If you feel the urge while you're spending time apart and not getting any, then get down to it. If you don't, then don't. Either way, you don't have to consult anyone else about it... even your boyfriend. But obviously it's good to be able to tell to tell it to your other half straight; you could always subtly remind him who you'll be thinking of while you're rubbin' the nubbin'..?
as long as the answer is him... if not, best keep schtum...
lol
I would never ever give up my personal time with my little bunny friend
If your other half isn't saying no to sex to masturbate then I don't see the problem really.
being in a relationship made me do it more if anything. i think!
The only exception would be if we were playing some kinky game with chastity belts or something.
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not to mention very tired.
it's your bean, and you may flick it or not flick it as you wish. if your fella has trouble with that idea, i encourage you to tell him to COCK OFF as loudly and as clearly as you can.
best reply ever!!
if so then... :flirt:
I hate to disappoint you but I'm talking about another bunny
I have two different bunnies :hyper:
I used to masturbate daily as a teen, but now it's really once in a blue moon and if I do it's never as good as what my boyfriend does. I've no idea whether this is because I'm getting it regularly, or I'm just not the horny young thing I once was, but I have very little interest in wanking anymore...
I personally never have much fun with it. I'd always much rather have someone else do it for me.
Did it the other night for the guy I was seeing. It's the best I've ever done it on my own.
And he enjoyed it too.
I think you should take the time to experiment a little. Perhaps if you experienced it a bit more it might not seem so bad?
I think that is a very unfair generalization. If I'd told someone I'd not do something, then I'd not do it. Different people have different needs, and whilst the majority of people do masturbate whilst in a relationship, you cannot possibly pass judgement on whether or not another guy will be spanking his monkey on the sly.
Don't take offence in this by the way, just a personal opinion. Besides, Blairx0 is more worried about the unfairness of him being able to masturbate when she's not allowed. Relationships should be equal & etc. etc.
Ask him if he rather wants you to roam through the streets hornily. you are not "cheating" on him by masturbation. Before you start a real fuss, just say "ok, agreed b/f!" but still masturbate. he's not going to find out and it's none of your business if you stick your own finger up your own box.
yeah, you said you did not have the urge, but I think you will after you hadn't had sex for some time and think about it/make yourself horny with that.
Just try it, ofc it's not as good as the real deal, but it's still damn good