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ex's dating again
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i might sound a little ignorant because the girl i like is going out with one of her ex-boyfirends and it really pisses me off
i dont get it why ex's decide to go out with each other again. yea i understand that there still might be some feelings for each other (even though their past relationship ended pretty ugly)
but what makes ex's think that it will turn out better the second time around than it did the first time i just dont get it?
i dont get it why ex's decide to go out with each other again. yea i understand that there still might be some feelings for each other (even though their past relationship ended pretty ugly)
but what makes ex's think that it will turn out better the second time around than it did the first time i just dont get it?
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I went out with my ex, 3 times. Oops, oops and oops really. The first year was fine, then I got bored so we split up a little after. That really freaked me out just because I wasn't used to being single, so we got back together the day after. Split up again a few months later, and stayed apart for a few weeks. Then he was nagging me over and over and I made the mistake of giving in.
In hindsight it worked out rather well, as I eventually properly split up with him to be with my current boyfriend, so there was no being single, which I don't like. I like to know I'm safe and (even if he wont admit it) loved.
Sometimes I guess you think that you'll both put the effort in the next time, and you do, for a couple of weeks, then it slips back into the old habits.
Hard to explain.
It happens....
If you care for her you'll respect her decision.
There are just no rules for this type of thing.