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am i weird
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i have recently left my b/f and its all bit complicated as we live together. he has moved out now and my friends all say i should jump back on the band wagon. they should i shouldnt jump into another relationship but should maybe get a fuck buddy for the mean time or sleep around.
ia this normal? i would like to sleep with other people i mean we all have sexual needs but i dont really like the idea of sleeping around, as all the men i have ever slept with i have been in a relationship with.
does this make me weird that i have never slept around? am i missing out on something good??
ia this normal? i would like to sleep with other people i mean we all have sexual needs but i dont really like the idea of sleeping around, as all the men i have ever slept with i have been in a relationship with.
does this make me weird that i have never slept around? am i missing out on something good??
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Always keep in mind that sex is something for the moment. Let's say you sleep with 3 men in 2 months. you are not feeling any better or worse then (except you got some issues). If you don't feel like sleeping around, don't do it.
Sex with one good partner (good = you trust, come along with, is ok in the sack, you maybe love), is not a ounce worse then having more sex partners.
You are not weird. Do as you feel, and never let yourself be talked into "you should be sleeping around." Wtf is this for a stupid advice.
be yourself.