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fingering my gf for the first time?
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hi all
i have been going out with my gf for about 7 months and the other day we decide that i was going 2 finger her, i fingered her and she was enjoying it, so i decide 2 put 2 fingers in her but sahe said that it hurt so i stoped.
on the night she told me that it was hurting a bit after a while it was ok, the next day she was ok nothing but on the 3rd day she said that it was really hurting and it was bleeding really bad and all day it was hurting and she had 2 go 2 the toilet every half an hour.
can any1 help me as im really worried about her and have i done sumthing wrong i feel really bad now and upset. :crying:
i have been going out with my gf for about 7 months and the other day we decide that i was going 2 finger her, i fingered her and she was enjoying it, so i decide 2 put 2 fingers in her but sahe said that it hurt so i stoped.
on the night she told me that it was hurting a bit after a while it was ok, the next day she was ok nothing but on the 3rd day she said that it was really hurting and it was bleeding really bad and all day it was hurting and she had 2 go 2 the toilet every half an hour.
can any1 help me as im really worried about her and have i done sumthing wrong i feel really bad now and upset. :crying:
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If she continues to bleed and is still in pain then a trip to the GP is probably a good idea, its worrying that she's bleeding 3 days later, could it be her period? Were your nails sharp or something?
Its a good idea to remember that 'fingering' isn't just about ramming your fingers in there, caressing the whole vagina and clitoris feels much better. :thumb:
If it doesnt all heal up soon for her recomend she visits her GP or a practice nurse.
Also, if she hasn't had any kind of penetration before, it may just be that you're breaking her slightly?
ETA: Or dirt underneath the nail?
(Texts boyf to cut his nails lol)
Ha ha! Yes! Always a good idea!
That made me chuckle.
Well I was just saying because some young guys don't realised that it aint all about jamming your finger in and out. I wasn't accusing him or saying thats what he did, but I figured other boys might read this and it'd save their girlfriends having to explain.
I've found that with tighter girls, using each finger in seperately before using both causes less pain than getting over-excited and just going for it, as there is much less friction due to the extra lubrication.
you ever get annoyed when you arm/hand/wrist starts getting cramp/sore from too long in the same position, and finding it slightly awkward asking her to shift it a bit so your hand can get better access to her groin
You guys get it so my easier. It takes so much less energy/ muscle pain potential to finger a girl than it does to give a hand-job
Even more awkward when they're wearing tight jeans, and you don't want to look expectant of more by asking them to take them down a bit ;(
It is completely monotonous though. Grab and up-down motion. As compared to worrying about whether you're paying all parts of the region enough attention, respond to her breathing etc, make sure you're not pressing too hard or being too rough etc.
What?! You mean you really arent just thinking about when she'll return the favour and suck you off? :razz:
Unless I was really really drunk and I can't remember it but I don't think so.
How do you vary them then, smash the bloke in the face as he's about to come or something?
Just to clarify before someone else does, yes that is my fantasy....
word
What does that actually mean on this message board?
what doofay said is so true, it couldnt be even more true, even if it was the WORD of god
Which it probably is.
oh right..
I was thinking "yeah you are right and thats the final word on the matter"
thanx for clearing that up
that you are right, or prophetise the word of god, or you are god? :yippe:
That made me burst out laughing
very much agreed lol, i nroammly end up doing better my self anywayz
Same here. I find them soooo boring. It'd be much better if i had a magazine in one hand, and someones cock in the other. Alas most blokes won't go for that :impissed:
Hmm... I think I like the reaction more than the actual doing it...which in turn means I enjoy it. Or something.
Hey
Why not offer to kiss it better?
That would work for me (gentler, too)
I don't know if she doesn't want you to be that intimate...best to murmur the suggestion to her first.
cquest x