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Kissing
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Didn't really know which topic to post this in. But anyway.
Any kissing tips? =]
Any kissing tips? =]
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Exactamundo!! Don't try and eat there face, just go slow
Sorry.
Eyes always closed, wet lips are good, sometimes just kiss on of the lip not both, grab it with your mouth, play with it with your tongue or teeth (quickly so)...
And well french kiss... which is both tongue rolling around... it's not just tongue touching each other like a lot of people seems to think... there must be a rolling going on and not just one roll... plenty...
How do you mean? Well I know what you mean but about the rolling and stuff ..?
well let's try to describe that a bit better...
both your tongues are touching and they both roll on one way or an other while still touching... like if you have your finger in your mouth and were rolling your tongue all around it... same but with tongues...
sorry not that easy to describe in writing...
Don't worry about it too much. Do what feels comfortable and enjoyable to you, and keep an eye on him too. You'll know if he's enjoying it too
Just go with what feels right - we're all different, and have different likes and dislikes.
Don't worry, it will only cause you stress and won't help, just go with the flow...
Ooo kissing is one of my favourite things.
I tend to go in really gentle at first, just pecking the lips, maybe open his mouth a little with my tongue then kiss and suck his bottom lip. Then I open my mouth more and thats when it gets tonguey, rubbing our tongues together then like NMM says a little bit of rolling. It doesn't all happen that quick though its a lengthy teasing process with me.
I always stop for a little and open my eyes and give my fella a little cheeky smile.
Also its not just about your mouths, (depending on how well I know the man in question) I will use my hands to stroke his face, neck, hair, back.....or anything else I fancy
Aww I don't have anyone to kiss tonight!! I love kissing so much!
Well after reading all that I'm up for it! *smooooooooooooooch* :yes:
:flirt: :flirt:
I'm such a flirt!
I'd just like to add that once you get to know each other better and aren't so nervous it'll get better naturally. Just have fun with it, sex is all about trying new things and I don't know about anyone else but every day I learn something new that I or my partner (if i had one now) likes, its all fun experimentation.
It'll be great I'm sure, the key is to relax and go with the flow
:razz:
Have you two been kissing? :chin:
:yes:
Play with the bottom of their back too.
I like to be the one in charge sometimes, but if my boyfriend was "leading" I'd fit in.
The slow kisses are always the ones that make me dizzy, but the hard, slightly faster ones are the ones that turn me on, mostly anyway. There's a bit of leeway there.
Best thing to do is just go with it as it happens. :yes:
That's what I'm like.
It also means that when you kiss someone who is completely fucking rubbish, you haven't always got the talent to turn it around... haha.
I remember once I fancied this guy for AGEEEES, then finally I had the chance to kiss him, so I did - and he kissed like a washing machine. Urgh. At that very moment I stopped fancying him! Crazy.
Second tip: smile. It's not a competition or a test, its supposed to be fun / enjoyable for both of you!
Third tip: don't worry whether the other person is enjoying it - they're kissing you, aren't they???
Fourth tip: don't think about technique, about where your tongue is supposed to be or anything. What I think is more helpful, is just start at a basic level, a small kiss on the lips. Then another, and keep diong it until both of you are enjoying it (you wont need me to tell you when this is
Fifth and final tip: if you're still worried about kissing, have a cuddle. Works wonders