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Lap Dancing
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Ladies, would you ever take your BF to a lap dancing place (or have you before)?
Guys, you ever been taken?
Guys, you ever been taken?
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Otheriwse sounds cool for your partner to offer such, but I am not sure I'll be up for it or enjoy it... Just imagine if your partner has to choose and bring you an ugly chick... yuk...
All hypothetical since I am single right now.
You don't get many ugly chicks in there. How would they make money?
O.k. not lap dancing, no touching but a pole dance for your BF in front of you?
You'd be amazed how many women do actually go.
well been to a strip club once and frankly the girl that was stripping was so ugly I finished my drink quickly and left before she was even finished...
Because they are jiggling their naked breasts around maybe?
Not if it was just for my bf, if it was everyone in the room, fine. I see that as the same as him watching porn in his living room which I'd be fine with.
O.k. more up market lapping places (if you can say that)
O.k. so you'd go into the main room of a club (bar/lounge area with all the other people) and watch the pole dance show. How do you think he'd react if you suggested taking him?
Well I'll have to say my most recent guy probably would have been excited about telling his mates that I had suggested something so kinky but in reality I don't think he would have actually gone into the club with me. I think he would have thought it was disrespectful to me even though I had suggested it. He never wanted me to watch his porn with him either.
Why?
I don't know, he just didn't like me seeing it. He didn't want me to disrespect me, he actually said he would be willing to throw his mags out if i didn't want them in his flat. Maybe his ex was a bit weird about it.
I dunno didn't get that far.
It's all in the name of fun, isn't it?!
No I wouldn't... I would go cos you want to... but been in one once and don't want to go again... was just curious how it looks in there... and it was shite...
I wouldn't be able to deal with him going to one, I, too, am very insecure, and would question him why I wasn't enough etc.
I would maybe go in one in the future, maybe when I deal with my insecurities I'll take him too, but in the mean time, it's very much a strict no.
I'd rather stay home, save my money and have the girlfriend give me a lap dance
I wouldn't take my boyfriend, purely because I could put on a better show myself, and he'd be allowed to touch. If I wanted him to see a performance, I'd much rather take him somewhere more burlesque and pleasing to the eye.
i'm going to suggest it to my friends when im back in manchester because i bet they'd be up for it.
Don’t do it.
See, my girlie mates would sooooo not be up for it. They're not open minded enough. I mean, once we were discussing sex and a few of us said we liked doggy style, and my best friend was convinced we meant anal sex. Weirdo. That's why I couldn't take them to a lap dancing club, haha.
I think I'd like to pay for a dance too, just to see what it's like...!