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The big 'O'
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This is kind of embarassing but my boyfriend (my first one) and i having been having sex for about 3 months and he still hasn't made me orgasm. I know he feels bad about it because he feels he isnt pleasuring me. We do have great sex and i love him so much, but i just can't orgasm. Any tips or any different things to try to help?
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Also, not all girls come from sex, foreplay is the way forwards and lots of it
Usually if the angle he take make a part of his body rob against the clit it does the trick...
what? like stick it in her at the same time as well?
Hah!
Now I have an image of a guy thrusting away in a corner somewhere and the girlfriend shouting "I'm all the way over here"
no wonder guys have such a hard time finding the g spot or the clitoris
I don't understand it either, my boyfriend didn't have a problem finding it. Its really quite simple guys, you can look these things up on the net, or in a biology textbook.
I put it down to the hoards of porn he watched :yeees:
Id say its all about the clit!!! Only other way i can do it is if a vibrator is used - CLit Kit from Ann Summers is a really good one. Had my first orgasm with that.
Also try things like vibrating cock rings, shit loads of oral ( on you not him, duh) and kinda mix and match the lot.
Have fun