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Girly stuff for a mate- may be a bit gross.
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Ok, on behalf of a mate:
She thinks she has a slightly swollen clit, and has a few little cuts on her clit from a rough night of passion, and also a white discharge.
We've looked on the internet- as I suggested thrush to her cos of the discharge, but we don't know, as she said she isn't itchy. Any advice?
I've said to tell bout seeing a dr. but she really doesn't want to. No reason given to me thou.
She thinks she has a slightly swollen clit, and has a few little cuts on her clit from a rough night of passion, and also a white discharge.
We've looked on the internet- as I suggested thrush to her cos of the discharge, but we don't know, as she said she isn't itchy. Any advice?
I've said to tell bout seeing a dr. but she really doesn't want to. No reason given to me thou.
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How did she get the cuts?
Mentioned to her bout STD testing, but she went on bout how it's only a slight discharge, and that he'd tell her if he had anything.
Why has she told you about it if she doesn't want help?
It's difficult to make any sort of judgement about what your friend is experiencing without her being examined by a medical professional.
You could have a look at Society of Sexual Health Advisors (SSHA) - in particular they outline symptoms of sexual health problems such as bacterial vaginosis that is sometimes mistaken for thrush.
If your friend is not keen on seeing a GP - she can request to see a female doctor or could go straight to a genito-urinary medicine (GUM) clinic - she can search for her nearest clinic on sexual health clinic finder or could go to her nearest Brook Advisory Centre
TheSite has articles on
visiting a GUM clinic
If she doesn't want to see someone face to face - she can contact the fpa helpline for confidential advice on sexual health on 0845 3101334 (Lo-cost) Mon-Fri 9am to 6pm (closed Thursday 3.00-4.30pm)
Hope this helps your friend
She just wanted advice from me, and I hadn't been in that situation to advise her. Have told her that she needs to see a dr. thou, couldn't really think of anything else I could suggest to her, apart from not to be so rough next time! lol.
Brilliant, thankyou for the links
You were talking about discharge... Isn't that supposed to happen?