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What do I do, My head is spinning.
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Well I am really confused right now. Coz i have three main people in my life right now. All lads, They are making my head spin and they are always there.
1) there is my ex - he says he stil luvs me and i know that i still luv him. We talk alot and stuff but i don't know what to do. we were together for about 6 months and we were really close. We stil are great friends but we both want more. He is always on my mind and i still get really upset that we aren't together.
2) there is this guy who really likes me and i think he is ok, but better as a friend. Then i have everybody coming upto me and asking me to go with him and give him a chance. I don't know what to do. i don't want to go with him but i don't want tohurt him.
3) The there is this other guy who i like (not half as much as my ex) but he thinks he is in luv with me. he has been with his girlfriend for 2 years but he says that he can't get me out of his head. i like him and i would go with him if he asked, but there is always his girlfriend. she has a reputation for hurting people (Badly)
So what do i do. Who do i choose i luv my ex, but i don't know what to do about that other two. Please help me.
Thanx Luv Tek-ila
Editd because i am having a blonde day
[ 28-05-2002: Message edited by: Tek-ila ]
1) there is my ex - he says he stil luvs me and i know that i still luv him. We talk alot and stuff but i don't know what to do. we were together for about 6 months and we were really close. We stil are great friends but we both want more. He is always on my mind and i still get really upset that we aren't together.
2) there is this guy who really likes me and i think he is ok, but better as a friend. Then i have everybody coming upto me and asking me to go with him and give him a chance. I don't know what to do. i don't want to go with him but i don't want tohurt him.
3) The there is this other guy who i like (not half as much as my ex) but he thinks he is in luv with me. he has been with his girlfriend for 2 years but he says that he can't get me out of his head. i like him and i would go with him if he asked, but there is always his girlfriend. she has a reputation for hurting people (Badly)
So what do i do. Who do i choose i luv my ex, but i don't know what to do about that other two. Please help me.
Thanx Luv Tek-ila
Editd because i am having a blonde day
[ 28-05-2002: Message edited by: Tek-ila ]
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I'll second that, from a few bad experiences of getting back together with ex girlfriends!
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don't worry bout the other two: feel flattered they like you, but think of yourself. be selfish coz its really what u want that matters, just be honest with them even if its a bit icky.
What is stopping you getting back with your ex? It might help to think that over and think whether your feelings for each other are strong enough to overcome the reasons why you split. I definately wouldn't do anything with bloke number 2 because you say you just see him as a friend and it would be cruel to be him and you if you were to do anything with him.
Utimately you have tofollow your heart and do what you think is right and what will make you happy not what others think. I know its easier to say it that do it cos I find it hard to follow that peice of advice.
Take care and be happy
Ann
What is stopping you getting back with your ex? It might help to think that over and think whether your feelings for each other are strong enough to overcome the reasons why you split. I definately wouldn't do anything with bloke number 2 because you say you just see him as a friend and it would be cruel to be him and you if you were to do anything with him.
Utimately you have tofollow your heart and do what you think is right and what will make you happy not what others think. I know its easier to say it that do it cos I find it hard to follow that peice of advice.
Take care and be happy
Ann
sorry
AnnMarie
Seconded
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Who's the other lucky lad then?