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So, he's changed and it's not for the better..
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I've posted about this guy before, and I am most likely going to ramble but I need to get it off my chest as it quite frankly doing my head in.
So, I was "seeing" this guy for a few months.. we'd text and see each other, however during the first few weeks he suddenly got back with his ex girlfriend.. and then dumped her again a few days later because he really missed me and it was just a "rush" of feelings between them, and he was really sorry.
So, things were good.. all our friends would go out and it'd be great. Then, one Saturday night everything seemed to go to pot. He was seen with some other lass, but nothing happened according to my "source" haha. Then he'd be weird, wouldn't text me (when usually I would be getting constant texts all day). Next Saturday we had a party to go to, and we were both gonna be there, he hardly acknowledged me and things just got worse to be honest.
A few weeks past and he was already seeing some other lass, and he was all over her infront of me in the nightclub.
But now, he's a totally different guy. Before he was so, so, soo lovely and caring, but now he acts like a complete tosser, is arrogant and cocky, and acts like he wants nothign to do with me. However, it's not just me, it's other friends too.. I'm not sure if he's still seeing this girl, or going out with her, whatever, but surely why would his characteristics change? It's not hard to be normal, and jsut be friends.. even if nothing is going to happen, is it? Yeah, I do still like him.. wishful thinking though. Lol.
I just don't understand. I confronted him and he said there was nothing wrong with him, and that he wasn't being weird. I told him it certainly seems it and all he has to say is "aww k".
Wtf?
So, I was "seeing" this guy for a few months.. we'd text and see each other, however during the first few weeks he suddenly got back with his ex girlfriend.. and then dumped her again a few days later because he really missed me and it was just a "rush" of feelings between them, and he was really sorry.
So, things were good.. all our friends would go out and it'd be great. Then, one Saturday night everything seemed to go to pot. He was seen with some other lass, but nothing happened according to my "source" haha. Then he'd be weird, wouldn't text me (when usually I would be getting constant texts all day). Next Saturday we had a party to go to, and we were both gonna be there, he hardly acknowledged me and things just got worse to be honest.
A few weeks past and he was already seeing some other lass, and he was all over her infront of me in the nightclub.
But now, he's a totally different guy. Before he was so, so, soo lovely and caring, but now he acts like a complete tosser, is arrogant and cocky, and acts like he wants nothign to do with me. However, it's not just me, it's other friends too.. I'm not sure if he's still seeing this girl, or going out with her, whatever, but surely why would his characteristics change? It's not hard to be normal, and jsut be friends.. even if nothing is going to happen, is it? Yeah, I do still like him.. wishful thinking though. Lol.
I just don't understand. I confronted him and he said there was nothing wrong with him, and that he wasn't being weird. I told him it certainly seems it and all he has to say is "aww k".
Wtf?
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If he wanted to be your friend, hed act nice, but he doesnt, so hes not.
really makes no sense..
That quite often happens when people break up, especially if hes got someone else in the pipeline too.
Sounds to me like he had you on the 'go' maybe keeping you as a 'back up' (sorry that sounds well harsh) but has now found someone else so he's happy and doesnt need you anymore. But i could be wrong of course... thats just what it sounds like to me sorry.