Strange question for the heterosexuals

Former Member · April 2006

You ever wondered what it would be like to do homosexual acts? I have.. I don't think I'd like it much. BUT sometimes I do wonder... whats it like to give blowjobs. I'm not looking for offers or anything, but I wonder, any bi people? Are they more or less the same or both experiences worth trying. I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable, due to a combination of factors

but I bet my girlfriend would be over the moon lol.

But yea. Any girls wonder what its like to eat another girl out? Or finger them to orgasm?

Sorry if this is a weird thread. I did answer my question though

Former Member · April 2006

Yeah Ive wondered. Its probably more common for girls though being that its pretty well accepted for girls to be bisexual as long as their boyfriend can watch etc etc blah blah. Not saying thats why ive wondered, cos it isnt. I just have.

Former Member · April 2006

I wouldnt say its more common at all. I think its about the sexualisation of male / female roles. My girlfriend discussed threesomes ages ago when we were fairly liberal

and I said I wouldn't mind as long as it wasnt a guy doing things with her cos i would get jealous. She said she'd get jealous if it was a girl doing things with me! So I think its broadly similar.

But take your typical lad like skive on the forum, I doubt hes gonna be thinking about it (or i could be wrong). How come gay / bisexual men never seem to be hard ass boxers but instead are sensitive, affeminate people. Not trying to be stereotypical, just going on all the gay guys I know.

Former Member · April 2006

TheShyBoyInTheCorner wrote:

I wouldnt say its more common at all. I think its about the sexualisation of male / female roles. My girlfriend discussed threesomes ages ago when we were fairly liberal and I said I wouldn't mind as long as it wasnt a guy doing things with her cos i would get jealous.

I do think its definitely more common for girls to both think about it and do it too. Its nothing to do with liberalisation of society and more to do with the pornification of society. Its almost EXPECTED for girls to have bisexual fantasies, and girls snogging their best friends on a night out in front of a group of lads is de rigeur, but hardly any of them would do it in private.

Former Member · April 2006

SuzyCreamcheese wrote:

and girls snogging their best friends on a night out in front of a group of lads is de rigeur, but hardly any of them would do it in private.

Yer apparantly in the society we live in, looking like a slut make you look cool...

Former Member · April 2006

well its like that girl recently posted something about possibly fancying her mate, and then 2 guys are like "hehe dont you think this is really hot". I mean FFS. imbeciles. people think lesbianism is a joke. Something just to tittilate the guys, and the amount of women who just go along with it, ending up being confused about their own sexuality, and i really dont think it would make it easy for real lesbians who get teased the whole time by girls just wanting to impress their boyfriend.

Former Member · April 2006

SuzyCreamcheese wrote:

well its like that girl recently posted something about possibly fancying her mate, and then 2 guys are like "hehe dont you think this is really hot". I mean FFS. imbeciles. people think lesbianism is a joke. Something just to tittilate the guys, and the amount of women who just go along with it, ending up being confused about their own sexuality, and i really dont think it would make it easy for real lesbians who get teased the whole time by girls just wanting to impress their boyfriend.

I agree guys can be morons about it, but some girls in night club don't have any bf and do that to attract, well, morons... we had as well the case in here of a guy who was quite disturbe about his girlfriend doing such thing when it was obviously not him pressuring her to do so or anything otherwise he would have enjoyed it... All i am saying is some do it cos they think it makes them looks cool... after if a girl got a proper attraction to an other girl there is nothing hot or funny about it... love works in many and gender is not a criteria that should be taken into consideration...

Former Member · April 2006

Yes sometimes but it makes me feel sick.

Former Member · April 2006

yeh, but only out of curiosity. i've never done it and would like to so..
but no i'm not bi or anything.

Former Member · April 2006

Do homosexuals ever fantisize about straight stuff?

Former Member · April 2006

my_name wrote:

Do homosexuals ever fantisize about straight stuff?

Good question...

Former Member · April 2006

yeh i wonder. i'm gona try it one day.. just for curiosty's sake

Former Member · April 2006

SuzyCreamcheese wrote:

. people think lesbianism is a joke. Something just to tittilate the guys, and the amount of women who just go along with it, ending up being confused about their own sexuality, and i really dont think it would make it easy for real lesbians who get teased the whole time by girls just wanting to impress their boyfriend.

Your so right there, I've been openly lesbian for about 5/6 years now and alot of people, especially male think that the realationships ive been in are a joke. When i was out with my ex gf in a club i'd hardly ever kiss her as men take this as a sign of us wanting attention, when its not its just a way of showing affection.

An yeah i do think about doing straight things, but i wouldnt really want to say i'm bi as it seems to be a cool thing to say right now, kissin your best mate in a club for blokes to watch doesnt make you bi.

Former Member · April 2006

Call me boring if you want but Iv never really seen the enjoyment of watching 2 women kiss.....at the end of the day if they are kissing and are together they wont fancy blokes anyway will they? :chin:

Former Member · April 2006

The Leaf wrote:

Call me boring if you want but Iv never really seen the enjoyment of watching 2 women kiss.....at the end of the day if they are kissing and are together they wont fancy blokes anyway will they? :chin:

Holy fuck, call the pope! A man who understands! *passes out*

Former Member · April 2006

Lesbian sex doesn't turn me on one bit.

Skive · April 2006

Lesbian porn is only good because there's no hairy arses. Fit ladies in a state of undress are a turn on.

Former Member · April 2006

Yeeeah I've wondered. I think it'd be cool. Only in a curious way of course.

Former Member · April 2006

I'm 100% straight but yeah I do tend to wonder what it'll be like. Female on female porn does turn me on more than male on female porn as well- kinda odd.

But I just like penis too much.

Former Member · April 2006

I agree with the previous post too.

I have done it in private with a girl, but i dont think of myself as bi-i was just curious. still am.

Former Member · April 2006

I'm a straight woman and I've thought about it. My partner and I may swing sometime in future, so it's a possibility since the place we're with is predominantly female.

Former Member · April 2006

I can't really think of anything I can do with a guy that I couldn't do with a girl anyway except getting buggered up the arse, which doesn't really appeal to me. Plus girls are nicer to cuddle up to afterwards.

Former Member · April 2006

Have wondered about it in the past, but as Shyboy said dont think i'd enjoy it.
Was offered a threesome when in college by the girlfriend of one of my gay female friends, but i turned it down. And with my ex we talked about a MFM or MFF a few times but never did it.

Former Member · April 2006

my_name wrote:

Do homosexuals ever fantisize about straight stuff?

I think it depends on the gay guy. If he is as completely homosexual as some men are completely straight, the thought may not appeal to him. But personally, for me, I have had women slip in and out of my fantasys from time to time ... but these days, would probably not act on them.

Former Member · April 2006

TheShyBoyInTheCorner wrote:

You ever wondered what it would be like to do homosexual acts? I have.. I don't think I'd like it much. BUT sometimes I do wonder... whats it like to give blowjobs.

Um ... I don't really know how to describe it. Kinda sucking on a warm, hard but well-padded thick sausage ...

.. erm ... but more so as well ...

Former Member · April 2006

Teagan wrote:

Um ... I don't really know how to describe it. Kinda sucking on a warm, hard but well-padded thick sausage ... .. erm ... but more so as well ...

Intresting I never thought about how to describe giving a blowjob before, but I would tend to agree....but there is a something else to it as well....not sure how to explain it though.

Former Member · April 2006

Little_one wrote:

Intresting I never thought about how to describe giving a blowjob before, but I would tend to agree....but there is a something else to it as well....not sure how to explain it though.

I know .. its just yummy!

Former Member · April 2006

SuzyCreamcheese wrote:

well its like that girl recently posted something about possibly fancying her mate, and then 2 guys are like "hehe dont you think this is really hot". I mean FFS. imbeciles. people think lesbianism is a joke. Something just to tittilate the guys, and the amount of women who just go along with it, ending up being confused about their own sexuality, and i really dont think it would make it easy for real lesbians who get teased the whole time by girls just wanting to impress their boyfriend.

Finally! Someone other than me saying it! I always think that people will think I'm whining if I bring it up!

Back to the subject - I sometimes wonder about having sex with a guy, I don't think I'd really do it, though. If I were more liberal about sex I probably would but I'd rather be in a relationship to sleep with someone and I can't imagine being in a relationship with a bloke.

Former Member · April 2006

SuzyCreamcheese wrote:

well its like that girl recently posted something about possibly fancying her mate, and then 2 guys are like "hehe dont you think this is really hot". I mean FFS. imbeciles. people think lesbianism is a joke. Something just to tittilate the guys, and the amount of women who just go along with it, ending up being confused about their own sexuality, and i really dont think it would make it easy for real lesbians who get teased the whole time by girls just wanting to impress their boyfriend.

So girls getting off with girls should be restricted to people who are 100% lesbian only?

Quite a few of my female friends are bi, I can't see any reason why they shouldn't get off with whoever they want for whatever reason. Just because they aren't interested in having an actual relationship with another girl doesn't make a "joke" of lesbianism, nor have they become confused about their sexuality.

If lesbians find that offensive - it's their problem entirely.

Former Member · April 2006

I think Suzy is referring to the sort of girls who would happily snog their friends/otherwise face off in a club to titilate whoever was watching, but wouldn't, nor haven't had a sexual experience with a woman in private, the experience itself means nothing, it's just for show for the others. I find it quite sad to be honest.

I have plenty of bi friends who make a point of not getting off with their female fuck buddies or girlfriends in public as they don't want to be accused of being 'faux lesbians' nor do they want to attract the attention.

Former Member · April 2006

go_away wrote:

I think Suzy is referring to the sort of girls who would happily snog their friends/otherwise face off in a club to titilate whoever was watching, but wouldn't, nor haven't had a sexual experience with a woman in private, the experience itself means nothing, it's just for show for the others. I find it quite sad to be honest.

I have plenty of bi friends who make a point of not getting off with their female fuck buddies or girlfriends in public as they don't want to be accused of being 'faux lesbians' nor do they want to attract the attention.

when you're young though.. about 16-18, you'll do anything to attract guys. thats why you go out wearing next to nothing, dance provocatively and kiss your mates. its just part of growing up and learning about your sexuality.

Strange question for the heterosexuals

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