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She's so cute
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I've posted on here before about me having feelings for a girl and now I like someone else.
I've been talking to her online for a couple of weeks, she's a mate of my gay friend. Anyway, we've been messing around on MSN, winding our mates up saying we're lesbian with each other. Then, on Friday night, she admitted to me that she likes girls and I'm the only person shes told. I like girls too, and I've told her this. She's in the same situation as me (we like girls but have never done anything with a girl or have never been out with one.)
On saturday, I finally met her at the gay friends house and before I got there, she told him she likes girls. When I was walking home, I couldn't get her out of my head. I think she's so cute and I wanted to look after her. We were all messing around and I couldn't help but protect her from getting hurt. I don't know what I should do about my feelings. Should I tell her? I don't want to scare her off or anything.
Edit: My friend just said that after I went home, she admitted to liking me.
I've been talking to her online for a couple of weeks, she's a mate of my gay friend. Anyway, we've been messing around on MSN, winding our mates up saying we're lesbian with each other. Then, on Friday night, she admitted to me that she likes girls and I'm the only person shes told. I like girls too, and I've told her this. She's in the same situation as me (we like girls but have never done anything with a girl or have never been out with one.)
On saturday, I finally met her at the gay friends house and before I got there, she told him she likes girls. When I was walking home, I couldn't get her out of my head. I think she's so cute and I wanted to look after her. We were all messing around and I couldn't help but protect her from getting hurt. I don't know what I should do about my feelings. Should I tell her? I don't want to scare her off or anything.
Edit: My friend just said that after I went home, she admitted to liking me.
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Just go out together sometimes, invite her shopping or for a coffee or a drink or something. Flirt with her a bit and see how she reacts, she if she gives it back as good as she gets. She obviously likes you in some way if she's told you something she's keeping quiet to other people.
Wise words here
And while I don't think you should "pounce", I think you should take her out.
Good luck...
Sorry about the immatureness.
guess it's the same in a heterosexual relation. Just be careful and don't rush into things. If the already admitted she likes girls and likes you, it's a win situation. She won't magically change her mind if you don't act like a nut.
No.
she wants to meet up with me in about.. an hour. She's going to tell me how she feels.. face to face. So I'll have to tell her how I feel too. Wish me luck. I need it!!
Good luck! Hope it goes well :thumb:
Yes.
Lesbians don't fancy boys, eejit.
Then I spoke to her on MSN and she was saying how much she likes me, that she can't get me off her mind. She just pushed me even further away. Put me off girls a bit, tbh. Oh well. =] So I told her it's not gonna work out because she likes me more than I like her and its not fair on her. But she wouldn't take no for an answer. So yeah, pretty peeved off.
I agree with that, but don't be too harsh on her. If she's in the same boat as you were, she was probably shitting herself as to how to approach you about it. She will have been really nervous and so she didn't say what she wanted to and it came out all stupid. And (assuming this one doesn't work out somehow) just because this one didn't go too well, doesn't mean that you don't like girls at all. If I'd stopped liking girls every time something awkward like this happened, I would've turn gay a long time ago.
Back to the matter in hand. It doesn't matter - if it wasn't right, it wasn't and there's nothing you or she can do about that. I've been in the other girl's situation (oh, so many times!) and it blows, but you'll both get past it. Don't fret and it will work out fine.
Yea, and the direct way she was taking probably did not help.
Tell her that you're insecure about your sexuality, and that it "didn't feel right, in this moment", like you said, so she can better understand you.
Maybe don't blow it into the wind already, but tell her you need way more time, and want to keep it slow.