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virgin
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Hi, I'm 27 and still a virgin. just wondered what people think about this. Do you think people will be put off going out with me??
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I personally have no issue with virgins... I would be honoured because it would mean that you trusted me enough to lose it to me.
In my eyes, it's not an issue.
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at anytime, just waiting for the right person to come along I think is quite sweet and romantic...
No one cares if you're a virgin or not, some girls might want an experienced lover as a partner but most will be understanding.
Cos if it was me I would rather be a 27 years virgin that a guy of 27 years old that sleep around with no respect for women or myself, that's about it...
Tbh if I thought I would meet SCC well I would have waited for her and be a 25 years old virgin... I can't have sex with noone without feelings, I can't have one night stands... And if I knew I wuld love someone as much as i like my girl I would have waited for her cos any sex i had before have no meaning and was nothing next to the one I have with someone I love that much...
How does shagging about cause this?
I don't disrespect any girl because i've shagged them, and i certainly don't disrespect myself for sleeping with women. Why would anyone?
It was my defintion of being a "slapper", not shagging about...
That depends.
Obviously, who are we to judge...but, it's all about why you are still a virgin I suppose...
Also, if you go out with someone, being a virgin is not something you would discuss at the dinner table, in fact it shouldn't be discussed at all unless when you get to the bedroom you feel a bit nervous, in that case, you can talk about it...
The thing is though, just because he's a virgin doesn't mean he'd be a crap shag (sorry for the bluntness). He might be really creative and sexy, also I tend to think its takes a while to get to know what a new sexual partner wants and how they like it anyway regardless of how much experience they have. Sex is all about learning, trying new things and experimenting together, well it is for me anyway. xx
Yes it can take times to learn sex with a new partner, but for me it is important that the guy know the basics such as where my clitoris and g-spot are.
Yeah I see your point, but it wouldn't take much to teach them that...suppose it depends how willing they are to learn.
:yes:
Nothing to worry bout at all
um thanks everyone for your opinions. I guess its cause i'm shy and, actually I'm female!
Why are you asking anyway?
Just like that queens of the stone age song.He went with the flow and got the girl at the end........even after that massive car crash!! :crazyeyes
Right,Im stopping now.......
I know! You'd think the name "Posy" might have caused the penny to drop.. :chin:
In answer to the original question, I don't think it would put anyone off going out with you. Anyone who is put off by something like virginity isn't someone worth going out with anyway, so it's a win-win situation.
exactly :yes: