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all guys jerk off, its fact. if they didnt, they would become more moody. I know that for a fact as the longest i went without a wank was 8 weeks because I was very sick. I was so moody and everything got to me. its not healthy to not pleasure yourself.
It aint a fact and not all men get moody, that's crap, I have been single for 3 months and didn't wank once in 3 months and it didn't got me moody at all...
But most guys probably jerk off at least once...
Just look at little boys, since they are really young they often play with their penis, because well it is there and easy to grab...
you must have a low sex drive :yeees:
Yeah right...
I just rather have proper sex than wank that's all...
No it isn't.
Maybe for you, but not for all men.
That's your experience. Not anyone else's. I know of men who do not wank and do not get moody. Just because this is what you experienced doesn't mean that all men experience the same.
Or you not opening your mind to what other people feel and other people's experiences.
99.9% wank, old men excluded.
If any guy who isn't asexual tells you they don't wank, you'd be well advised to take it as a lie.
It would have to be pretty extreme if you were addicted to masturbation though.
You can't really apply the concept of addiction to wanking 'coz it's normal to wank daily.
Unless you're wanking off multiple times spending hours at it each day and it's interfering with your life then there ain't a problem.
Source?
Many men do not wank. Simple as. Most do, I agree, but there are many exceptions to the rule.
For you, maybe. But don't generalize.
I'm also worried that my bondage s/m fantasies seem to be dominating my thoughts, is this normal?
:chin: read my mind
Same here, also if I have a boyfriend I tend to masturbate less.
I didn't say otherwise.
If most men wank and those who don't are exceptions to the rule, how isn't it normal?
Have to agree. When I first broke up with my ex-girlfriend I was depressed, but found that if I cracked one out I didn't give a shit about her for 5-10 minutes, so I became a serial wanker for a good 4 weeks until I could deal with it a little better.
Why? People who havent had a sexual relationship have wanking as their only sexual activity.
Doesnt make it abnormal.
Unless its taking over your life then its not a problem. Im pretty sure that most/alot of men wank daily