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Situation for a friend
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I've got a female friend, and she's in this situation:
the girl, well daniel is one of her best mates and simon is her boyfriend.
what would you do? What would you advise?
daniel hatess him bcuz hes jealous and says he loves me and cnt stand me being with him and simon hates him cuz he wants me and thinks hes gunna take me away from him and i jst can not b bothered with either of them nemore
the girl, well daniel is one of her best mates and simon is her boyfriend.
what would you do? What would you advise?
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She said she's happy with her byofriend though but he always ends up moaning about this other guy.
It sounds scarily similar to my situation, so I'm taking notes :razz: except we've kinda passed that now and are on the 'we know we love each other so lets forget about the third guy' but im still a little bit paranoid.
She said: "but im not strong enuf to say nothing"
though we can bitch how girls can turn into prick teases, is it fair of guys to come onto girls relentlessly, because a lot of girls are shy and their way of saying no is by not saying anything...
The guy have no respect for her and her relationship and she doesn't want to upset him, ffs the guy is a cunt and keep upsetting her, I think he can get upset once...
the guy whos after my girlfriend is the same though. why were some guys born onto this world cunts? but hes calmed down now because my girlfriend told him she didnt love him she loved me and he had to back off and she wanted some space. but that was after he kissed her on the head. but shes on holiday and hes been texting her again now because im not around. its funny, if he sees me he'll walk the other way. he's supposedly quite hard though.
its not about braun though, its about honour. its dishonourable to the girl. if you love them, let them go. how could you cause as much heartache to someone you 'love' by splitting up (or trying to, at least) a perfectly happy relationship? when the girl has self esteem issues and exploiting that. its not about love, its about greed.
If she continue it will either end up with both guys fighting or her boyfriend leaving...
seconded.
I think we all get together to one agreeing end: If she loves Simon and wants to stick with him, then Daniel's behaviour is inexcuseable.
If she's not assertive enough to tell Daniel to back off or get lost, then nobody can help her.