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When your BF/GF found your sex toys..
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What reaction did you get?
I have a little bedside cabinet with three drawers. The bottom has spare bedding in it, the top has condoms in it, and the middle is lined with red fur and has a selection of sex toys and raunchy underwear.
I'm fairly sure my boyfriend hasn't been in there yet, although I'm sure it'll happen eventually, one way or another. I can't figure out how he's going to react although there's nothing like strap-ons/bondage gear, so I'm not sure whether to warn him before he sees whats inside.
I have a little bedside cabinet with three drawers. The bottom has spare bedding in it, the top has condoms in it, and the middle is lined with red fur and has a selection of sex toys and raunchy underwear.
I'm fairly sure my boyfriend hasn't been in there yet, although I'm sure it'll happen eventually, one way or another. I can't figure out how he's going to react although there's nothing like strap-ons/bondage gear, so I'm not sure whether to warn him before he sees whats inside.
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BUt otherwise if it was me I would wonder why my girl need toys when she can have proper sex with me.
Just think what would you think if you find out he has a fake pussy/ass set or a inflamable doll...
inflatable doll right?
Nah a doll on fire is much more challenging
That is what I thought, although I only really use the toys when he's spent all night turning me on and then not done anything about it before he went home. He's mean, or I'm just too easy
Well the tell him "Now that you have turn me on, finish the job you lazy man!"
Don't see anything wrong with girls of mine having sex toys, I actually like it. I actually have some girls sex toys of my own to add a bit of something different to the session now and again.
You could tell him about them and if he's anything like me he will want to use them on you himself, so then if he can't be arsed finishing the job himself he can dip into your furry drawer and let mister rabbit do the rest
I think it's a bit sad when a guy can't even be bother to finish his girl properly and let her to it herself or let a machine do it...
Still don't see why it would bother you if a GF of yours had a sex toy???
ETA: Using sex toys in a session is FUN!!
Well here it's just me, frankly I don't like the idea and even if girls like it I don't think plenty of girls would enjoy their bf having a fake pussy to play with while at sex. If the guy suck in bed, they toys could be useful, but I like to feel everything, I don't like usng gear for it... Well not vibrator dildo and gear like that...
I slipped it into the conversation when he was trying to talk me into a threesome with my best mate, and he told me off for lying... A few months ago I told him I'd never pleasured myself, and then did it in front of him a week later. He's obviously forgotten the second part. Now he's trying to get me to have a threesome with my mate and vibrator. :rolleyes:
id be more surprised if he found your gspot and/or clitoris
I was, however, quite shocked to find out he owns three pairs of handcuffs. One is ok, THREE?!?!
One for hands, one for one leg, one for another leg? Maybe you should ask for a demonstration
Although he's lost the keys to two pairs, which is a bit shit.
Leather handcuffs are good, no keys and comfy...
Also I don't consider cuffs sex toys, but more bondage gear...
It's not that odd, also it's not a gift I would do or if I do one day the toy will stay in my total control... Some people like it even if they are good in bed, I just don't enjoy them myself, I rather do everything by using myself... It's just a preference...
i have a vibrator which i don't use, but to be honest i think my ex bf was turned on by it and didn't believe me when i said i didn't use it!
think he might've been intimidated by anything too scary.
I keep my pill in there as well as a pregnancy test (for emergencies), and used to have a guys deoderant, but it was my ex's so I threw it.
I thought it was wonderful, and its great to use toys in bed. I was most impressed by the pink fluffy handcuffs.
or one of these:
no seriously. Id love my guy to wank with stuff like that and use them as a valuable addition to our sex life. Theyre WELL sexy!
:thumb:
only fools and horse hehe