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Ok I am a 17 year old guy, I don't look any older than 17 but anyway I was out at a club on Saturday and met this nice girl there was one problem she os 20 years old, I got and got er mobile number I have since texted her once, and found out she lives 5 minutes away from me. Anyway she thought I was nice, but she doesn't know what age I am as I didn't tell her.
Anyway is it unusual for a younger guy to go out with an older girl, I would like this to lead to something more but I don't think it can happen because of a certain number (age).
Anyway is it unusual for a younger guy to go out with an older girl, I would like this to lead to something more but I don't think it can happen because of a certain number (age).
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IMO, if both people are consenting adults and are both cool with it then there's not a problem.
try it and see.
There was just something I really liked about her even though I hardly knew her, she seemed nice when I talked to her, and I am ready for a serious relationship, and I want it ot happen soon lol.
there's only one way to find out...
I know should I ask to meet up with her, or something or just hope to see her out again, im confident to a certain extent, but this just seems akward, hopefully I see her about one day and see if she says anything to me.
Think you should meet up with her, have a bit of fun and whatever then decide. If your meeting her again after that it would be worth telling her, she'll find out eventually mate
True. LOL, I don't drive yet, don't live independently. Still at school, live with parents, have no real income, it's going to be pathetic.
I just have a thing for slightly older women, they have a little more experience a little more mature.
lets be realistic, theyve only met once proberly pissed, its not about being special and having respect. its about getting to know her and having a good time.
agree with the last line. see how it goes first before saying too much
I've found it's more acceptable than what it use to be with age differences and stuff. im not saying it wont matter to her, because it might or might not, but you have three options,
1 - tell her, she might turn you down, might not
2 - lie, get together etc, she finds out, probably ends it
3 - avoid her totally,
imo your best option is 1
you can either lie, not lie or ignore her
Some girls won't be keen to go out with a younger guy, but then, my mate's boyfriend is 4 years younger than her - and they're madly in love.
You may be missing on something good if you don't try... go and find out.
I wouldn't date anybody younger... But that's me.
if you got on fab and there was a spark there, then it probably wont matter tbh.