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He meant as in "do you want to be my girlfriend".
Maybe it's just me, but I also find the topic of conversation important. If the looks of the bloke appeal to me, then I'd like talking to him, but that's just the first part. For me it's really important to be able to get nice conversation out of him, that's the real test to see if I fancy the guy or not.
unless she starts talking to me about that kinda stuff, if she does, and shes atractive, then im telling my mum im not coming home that night
Guy comes off with something cheesy like, 'Hey, don't I know you? Yeah, you're the girl with the beautiful smile.' Girls will guarantee to respond in someway with a smile or a laugh. If she likes the look of you, she'll stay and wait for you to finally ask for her name and start a conversation from there. And if she's not interested, she will turn and walk towards her friends (Cruel, but least u know straight away, whether u have a chance or not).
But whatever you do, don't ever come off with something tacky, like, 'So darling, want to see why the girls call me tri-pod?' She will not be impressed.
like lipsy said just say hello or something and make conversation with her.
disagree with the no-no topics, Star Trek's good by me and if you've got the whole collection on dvd then it' s a good excuse to invite myself over init!
I guess the point here is, if you're into star trek and 9/11 theories, you'll probably do better talking to someone similar- otherwise she'll think you're a moron BUT that's the risk you take when you be yourself, the advantage being you find the one who suits you...
post valentines depression probably.
my advice, simple as it sounds, is to just be yourself, you wont get far trying to act in a way that doesnt suit you. That way you will be relaxed, and more likely to meet someone you like.
works for me anyway.
if not just get totally hammerd, and let the drink do the work for you.
I dunno, maybe if you're pissed you might?!
Guy: Hey... come and sit with us
Girl: but there are no chairs
Guy: Oh... ok then... you could sit on my face.
WFT?
HAHAHA
When blokes try chat up lines, obviously you know whether you are attracted to them initially so if not then i generally just say im not interested and walk off.
I feel quite sorry for people who are trying to chat people up in bars and clubs and stuff. Its not exactly easy, most people have drunk too much and i just never really understand how they manage to do it lol
Anyway point i was makin is chat up lines only work if your either really cocky with it, and then have something worth while to say, or if you already know she is interested in you.