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Poledancing.
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Hi all. serious question this. Are there any women who have poledanced or are poledancers or who would like to be. i ask this because my female friend wants to do it and she isnt sure. what do any women (or for that matter lads) think?
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Yes I did lap dances. Down to a v.skimpy thong rather than nude. There was a 'private room' also, but what went on in there I couldn't say as I only did it three nights.
I've made more money doing shows and as a dance instructor so unless your frind specifically wants to get her kit off for a living, she could look into other entertainment/dance employment. And like I said- the hours are just shite.
Also, depending on what you want to do in the future, having been a poledancer could come back to haunt - it is classed as part of the sex industry isn't it? Not great on your CV if you want to be a solicitor or something... lol
I am mixed race, slim, short hair, glasses. The long blonde/blue/busty typically have an advantage, as long as they don't blow it when they open their mouths!
Inspiration: one of the things on my 'list of things to try before I get old/die', wanted to see if I would earn a million quid in a couple of hours, to meet a star and become a footballer's wife. - yes the last one's a joke!
Careful what you tell him katralla...
Now shes really thinking about it, and trying to find one of the classess that teach you it (for exercise).
Well theres nowt wrong with stripping an dpole dancing. Be aware though that most clubs are lap dance places, so you will have ot get naked and erotic for a guy or girl one on one.
You usually have to pay a house fee or they take some of each note you get.
It can get you a lot of money though, but for the UK most place sare open solely at night so its a night job rather then a day job.
It can be fun and is repsetciable, but some may look donw on you for it.
If you prepared to get naked for strangers for cash then go for it!
Little tip: Don't go up to guys and grab ther hands and attempt to drag them off for a dance or assume they want u t dance for them. Its rude and prseumptious. Talk to them, be nice, make them feel a little special and they money is yours
I'd feel a bit weird if hat was my sister - but I think I wouldn't mind dating a pole dancer ... as long as none of my mates had seen her .. and she was using all that extra cash to treat me ..
And those girls can really move. They can go form being nice girl to sexy seductress in just a look of an eye. I envy any guy that has a poldancer/lapdancer for a gf coz he must be having the best sex of his life!
That is the truth.
Look at his thread history.
Yeah, thought it was a bit smarmy asking me ques in PM that he could have just posted on the forum so I didn't answer them. All my replies are on the forum for the world to see...
Was very fun- enjoy it but doubtful Id do it for a job cause Im not good with getting my kit off in public :nervous: