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Toy boy situation
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Hi folks! Hope everyone is doing ok.
Last friday I was out in Manchester with mates for my 20th. I ended up gettin off with a girl by the end of the night in the club we were in. I knew she was older than me but wasn't sure how much older. We had swapped numbers and was txting on the Sunday and I realised she's 29 and a teacher. It came as a bit of a suprise to say the least. I told her how old I really was and she said I looked older which is true but to be honest, by the sound of it she didn't seem to mind. I asked if she fancied meetin up sometime soon and as things stand we're meetin on Friday.
Now the only snag is that I'm starting ot have 2nd thoughts. I have a rough rememberance of what she looked like and it's probably the same on her behalf considering we was both quite pissed. However it's the age difference which kinda makes me wonder. I'm just out for a laugh basically and don't really want anything proper and solid at least until I finish uni.
A few of my mates have said go for it and yet a couple have disagreed. I supppose one could say I've got nothin to lose, so just give it a go.
What does everyone else think? and If any readers are from Manchester, I know it all well as I'm from there but where the hell would I take her out??
Last friday I was out in Manchester with mates for my 20th. I ended up gettin off with a girl by the end of the night in the club we were in. I knew she was older than me but wasn't sure how much older. We had swapped numbers and was txting on the Sunday and I realised she's 29 and a teacher. It came as a bit of a suprise to say the least. I told her how old I really was and she said I looked older which is true but to be honest, by the sound of it she didn't seem to mind. I asked if she fancied meetin up sometime soon and as things stand we're meetin on Friday.
Now the only snag is that I'm starting ot have 2nd thoughts. I have a rough rememberance of what she looked like and it's probably the same on her behalf considering we was both quite pissed. However it's the age difference which kinda makes me wonder. I'm just out for a laugh basically and don't really want anything proper and solid at least until I finish uni.
A few of my mates have said go for it and yet a couple have disagreed. I supppose one could say I've got nothin to lose, so just give it a go.
What does everyone else think? and If any readers are from Manchester, I know it all well as I'm from there but where the hell would I take her out??
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And nothing wrong with an older women
man.
there are some nice little restaurants near the town hall too like croma or the italian near house of frasier.
also i'm sure at 29 shes not so naive as to think a 20 year old guy is really going to want a life-long commitment. for all you know she might have just come out fo a relationship and want some fun for a while. just go with it and see what happens
they've been seeing eachother for about 8 months now and it is just fun for both of them, nothing serious, but it works for them
so if thats anything to go by, give it a go!
i once had a bit of a fling with a older woman and she worked for the council, not as appealing, she was fair rank as well. oh well, you win some, you lose some
...then when its their time, they dont have to be that way and are often the opposite, wild and filthy, dirty, naughty
ahhhh....
The impression that I've always been given by my male friends is you want a good wife who is a whore in the bedroom.
not quite the same with male teachers, is it though.
having said that i did quite like that that was his job.