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losing virginity to a person I love?
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what's up boys and girls. For my first time having sex, should I have sex with a girl that I love? If yes, why is it so important that I have sex with a girl that I love?
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I think it's good though that you're giving it a thought, cause you don't want to go doing (or not doing) something you'll regret later on.
You only lose it once.
For all of you experience people. Did the first time having sex affect your whole view of sex? Is it the whole first impression thing? If you have sex the first time with someone that you love does it make sex better every time after that or something?
But for people who do it for the sake of sex, it'd be different, because its just pleasure, they don't have the emotional, love, side of it. (I'm speaking from experiences of friends).
In your case, it's "making love" because you love the person. Just dont get too caught up on being really nervous and if you suck/sucked, it very well could make things bad between the 2 of you. It's a moment to enjoy, not to worry about. Just cuddle heaps afterwards and its all good
Btw, have you two talked about having sex, much? Like, have you kinda said "In a months time we'll have sex" or something?
But hey. I can always start having sex with a girl that I love later on. For now I just want to beat some girls that are seriously open at school. I understand now! :shocking:
By wanting just sex, I want to just feel good
By loving the girl, it's more emotions involved and like I want to pleasure her too! Well then pshhhh. I'm gonna lose my virginity to whoever! YEAHHHHH :yippe:
Um... are you involved with someone atm? coz you you go and start "beating" girls, then you will be a man-whore and girls may find it hard to settle down with you because of your reputation and you may find it hard to settle down too, coz you just want sex. Dude, virginty isnt something you should just throw around. You should lose it in a loving relationship, not just a one night thing. unless you want to be a whore?
Every playa knows that!
But also. I can have sex with a girl that I love any time. I already understand that love stuff don't worry. I made my decision. To me, there are two types of girls.
1. Girls that you have fun with
2. Girls that you love and make love to.
Done and done
But, fine, the fact that you are a player has been established, it obviously doesnt matter to you who you lose it to, so I don't have anything more to say on the matter. It's your life
If your such a 'playa' why are you on here asking about losing your virginity, deary me
It just annoys me giving advice to people who don't care or aren't going to use it