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Can't find it!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hey Girls .... Any of you ever got into bed with a guy to find he honestly has no idea at all where the clit is located?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sex is a two way thing...if he has problems then help him...jeez can't expect him to do everything.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well it's not as easy as finding a cock, is it.

    do what turlough said, guide them to where it feels nice.

    and yes i've had a few who fumbled around a bit. but i can't complain 'cause i didn't show them otherwise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lucifer devil wrote:
    well it's not as easy as finding a cock, is it.

    Just love that comment :) :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nihilisticmadman wrote:
    Just love that comment :) :thumb:

    thankyou. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Iv'e been asked before to show him where it was!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you asking for yourself or a 'friend'? anyway the-clitoris.com has info and pictures for guidance.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have been with one or two that hadn't a clue what they were doing, but I was scared to tell them what to do, incase it knocked their confidence cause they seemed to have convinced themselves that fingering a girl, is all you need to do :-/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thats never happened to me, i always thought it was fairly obvious where it was located, but that might be because i'm a woman.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think its always fun to help someone find out how to please you and vice versa, thats the good part of a new relationship.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cruel2BKind wrote:
    they seemed to have convinced themselves that fingering a girl, is all you need to do :-/

    lol

    :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fingering does dont for me.i just practially fall asleep out of bordem while they do that thinking there great when im like shit im falling asleep!!!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha, im just laughing at the title of the post, i was so hoping it was a guy poster and he could find something of his own :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not a man, but the clit is not the g-spot. Its right there right out in the open! The guy has to be like 9 and never even had a sexual health class not to know!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    I'm not a man, but the clit is not the g-spot. Its right there right out in the open! QUOTE]

    :lol:

    I think men like to make everything as complicated as possible.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    myhumps wrote:
    my_name wrote:
    I'm not a man, but the clit is not the g-spot. Its right there right out in the open! QUOTE]

    :lol:

    I think men like to make everything as complicated as possible.

    Thats what man stands for doncha know... Makes Anything Npossible
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oi Women... :D

    It aint cos a guy or two you knew couldn't find it that all of us do.

    And we don't all tend to complicate stuff...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote:
    Are you asking for yourself or a 'friend'? anyway the-clitoris.com has info and pictures for guidance.


    Naah, just wondering cos you see on a lot of TV Sex Guide things when they go onths treets and have a drawing of a woman's bits to point to where the clit is and most of them seem to have no clue - wondering if this happened to anyone in real life.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lucifer devil wrote:
    well it's not as easy as finding a cock, is it.

    Post of the week tbh :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    myhumps wrote:
    my_name wrote:
    I'm not a man, but the clit is not the g-spot. Its right there right out in the open!

    :lol:

    I think men like to make everything as complicated as possible.

    navigating a woman is like driving on the m25, even worse if shes a whore, you might get tol charges as well
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote:
    navigating a woman is like driving on the m25, even worse if shes a whore, you might get tol charges as well

    You sound bitter. x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how cant he find it .. what angle is it from so to speak .. i mean is he infront of you with your legs spread and he doesnt know ?

    it can be a bit fumbly with your hand stuck down a pair of trousers at the back of a club etc!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    z01 wrote:
    it can be a bit fumbly with your hand stuck down a pair of trousers at the back of a club etc!

    Do that often do you? ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    your-babe wrote:
    Nowt wrong with that at all!

    Kinky!

    Nah not unless that bouncers catch you :blush: ...or maybe its the bouncers you're thinking of... :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me too :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote:
    Are you asking for yourself or a 'friend'? anyway the-clitoris.com has info and pictures for guidance.


    Naah, I was just asking from a funny story point of view!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so it took you 2 months to find it

    or has it still not been found yet?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    turlough wrote:
    Sex is a two way thing...if he has problems then help him...jeez can't expect him to do everything.

    Yeah exactly- not many other ways of finding out unless the female shows him there in person.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote:
    navigating a woman is like driving on the m25, even worse if shes a whore, you might get tol charges as well

    :lol::lol::lol: :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    turlough wrote:
    Sex is a two way thing...if he has problems then help him...jeez can't expect him to do everything.

    :yes:

    Couldn't agree more.

    How's a guy supposed to know when he first gets into that situation with a girl.

    The first girl I was with had some rather bizzare ideas of how to give me a hand job, but I didn't moan about it, I just showed her what to do ( I did have a few years of practice behind me after all! :razz: )
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I knew where it was located off of pictures in biology, but of course first time finding it is differently.

    She guided me to there, showed me how to find it and stimulate it, and she couldn't complain.

    I bet you don't know everything about the male body and sometimes need to ask about it. If a girl wouldn't go to bed with me, because I could not give her an answer to "Where is my clit located?" I'd say fuck that.
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