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Would you forgive your bf if he .......
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Slept with another girl in a moment of foolishness?
If yes, how to forgive and forget?
If yes, how to forgive and forget?
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No, because sex does not last a moment of foolishness. It's feelings meant to be shared with the person that matters at the most, if you want to sleep with someone else other than your girlfriend, then relationships are not for you at the mo.
I'd get him out the door. It was hard enough with my ex telling me he kissed another girl, after two years with moi, I punched him. But cause I was a prat I got back with him, only for like 2 months then we broke up for gooood.
So I couldn't. Sorry.
The person I'd be with - like I've preached MANY a time - would seriously drop to his knees cause he'd be SO in love with me. The thought of anyone else would seriously make him squeal like a woman in fright. Ha.
LMAO.
I'd not have a boyfriend, but I'd not forgive someone that was stupid enought to cheat on me.
I don't reckon you can forgive him to really. You wouldn't be able to trust him again, and you'd be paranoid every time he was out on his own etc.
You can't cheat in a moment of madness. You intend to do it. That's the thing so many people don't get.
Whoops, sher slipped and fell on my cock, so I pounded away at her for 40 minutes. Don't think so, poppet.
well summed up tbh
If you forgive this time, you'd better be prepared to forgive all the other times it'll happen in the future, too.
it would kill me.
You are lucky it's never going to happend with the one you have now then
There is indeed.
I think if the person can cheat it can cheat again.
At least in the same relationship as depending on the feelings in a relationship
sometimes you cheat if you are not in love and you would never do it if you
were in love.
I don't believe someone truly in love can cheat. Even drunk or anything.
But after love is seen differently by everyone.
Personally I wouldn't take back someone who cheated on me.
But I would go out with someone who cheated in past relationship
as I know by experience it all depend on the love and it doesn't mean
they would do it with me.
The trust is gone, if you did decide to continue your relationship with him it would never go back to the way it was.
If somebody betrays you once it's their fault... If they do it again it's your fault.
Aye. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
In the past I've forgiven a guy for cheating on me only to learn later on that it was a big mistake.
Yep even exist in French too.
The trouble I had in the past is that I really wanted to forgive and forget but every argument after that and every time he talked to another girl it was in my mind. I never forgot what he did and had an overwhelming need to get revenge which isn't good for anyone.
So now, knowing this I would end the relationship and move on, not easy but for me it needs to be done.
x
My bf cheated on his ex-girlfriends, but they were never serious relationships (like ours) and he was only 14-15 at the time.
Trompé une fois, honte sur toi. Trompé 2 fois, honte sur moi.
Tout simplement