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Top 5 qualities/assets..

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hellfire wrote:
    if you found the same guy, one rich but one ok off, enough to live on and have an ok house etc etc... you'd pick the rich guy, if a guy did that he'd get flamed for being a gold digger,

    might not be wrong but it seems alot of females are mainly interested in money and you kind of proved it there

    Yes, because one persons opinions/feelings on a matter <i>does</i> prove what the rest of the group are thinking, after all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fyi, if i was the one ^^ loads of money and a apealing stock portfolio is not actually a quality i look for, just so people dont think i am a gold digger ;) I still though would prefer they are able to breath on their own as oxygen tanks only get in the way during sex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Honesty.
    The ability to make me smile when I'm feeling shitty.
    Someone I can talk to for hours without getting bored.
    Someone I can trust.
    And, as someone said earlier, the "click". The all important click...I have lots of friends that fit into the above, but not many who I have the click with...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hellfire wrote:
    if you found the same guy, one rich but one ok off, enough to live on and have an ok house etc etc... you'd pick the rich guy, if a guy did that he'd get flamed for being a gold digger,

    might not be wrong but it seems alot of females are mainly interested in money and you kind of proved it there
    oh come off it graeme, for one, youre not gonna get that scenario actually happening so it proves nothing, and two, I dont know ANYONE in real life whos main prerequisite for a partner is money. please dont judge most women by Iloras standards.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1. Patience. Dear God, will she need patience to put up with me.
    2. Well read.
    3. A deep seated loathing of Phil Collins
    4. A quite specific sense of humour. She has to find me/the things I laugh at funny. Dating me would be torturous if she didn't.
    5. Huge, huge, huge breasts of course.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Infinite wrote:
    1. Patience. Dear God, will she need patience to put up with me.
    2. Well read.
    3. A deep seated loathing of Phil Collins
    4. A quite specific sense of humour. She has to find me/the things I laugh at funny. Dating me would be torturous if she didn't.
    5. Huge, huge, huge breasts of course.


    Haha, I have 4 out of 5 :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haha, I have 4 out of 5 :p

    As long as you've got number 3 I'm easy :razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i need to be able to trust him and believe he wont let me down
    honesty
    able to make me smile when i think about him
    easy going i.e. not possessive
    good looking (in my opinion)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1)Attractive
    2)Smart
    3)Outgoing
    4)Funny
    5)Honest
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Infinite wrote:
    As long as you've got number 3 I'm easy :razz:
    I have 3/5. And none of them is number 3 ;p.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Honesty/Trust
    Intelligence
    Good Sense of Humour
    Good Looks/Nice Body
    Caring and understanding
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote:
    I have 3/5. And none of them is number 3 ;p.

    Why must you defend him? He's the embodiment of pure evil!


    I'll give you a by though, since you're a fox :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, if you found someone with a buldging wallet, flashy car and WAS on your wavelength, you wouldn't say no would you?

    I'd like my guy to not be forever skint - so he can do the manly things like take me out for dinner once in a while - and he pays.

    But that's just me. Ilora x

    She take my money when I'm in need
    Yea she's a trifflin friend indeed
    Oh she's a gold digga way over town
    That dig's on me

    (She takes my money)
    Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in Need)
    But she ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz
    (She takes my money)
    Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need)
    But she ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz
    Get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    Get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    Get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    Get down girl gone head

    Cutie the bomb
    Met her at a beauty salon
    With a baby louis vuitton
    Under her underarm
    She said I can tell you ROC
    I can tell by ya charm
    Far as girls you got a flock
    I can tell by ya charm and ya arm
    but I'm lookin for the one
    have you seen her
    My psychic told me she have a ass like Serena
    Trina, Jennifer Lopez, four kids
    An I gotta take all they bad ass to show-biz
    Ok get ya kids but then they got their friends
    I Pulled up in the Benz, they all got up In
    We all went to Den and then I had to pay
    If you fuckin with this girl then you betta be payed
    You know why
    It take too much to touch her
    From what I heard she got a baby by Busta
    My best friend say she use to fuck wit Usher
    I dont care what none of yall say I still love her

    (She takes my money)
    Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in Need)
    But she ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz
    (She takes my money)
    Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need)
    but she ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz
    get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    get down girl gone head

    18 years, 18 years
    She got one of yo kids got you for 18 years
    I know somebody payin child support for one of his kids
    His baby momma's car and crib is bigger than his
    You will see him on TV Any Given Sunday
    Win the Superbowl and drive off in a Hyundai
    She was spose to buy ya shorty TYCO with ya money
    She went to the doctor got lypo with ya money
    She walkin around lookin like Michael with ya money
    Should of got that insured got GEICO for ya moneeey
    If you aint no punk holla We Want Prenup
    WE WANT PRENUP!, Yeaah
    It's something that you need to have
    Cause when she leave yo ass she gone leave with half
    18 years, 18 years
    And on her 18th birthday he found out it wasn't his

    (She takes my money)
    Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in Need)
    But she ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz
    (She takes my money)
    Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need)
    but she ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz
    get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    get down girl gone head get down (I gotta leave)
    get down girl gone head

    Now I aint sayin you a gold digger you got needs
    You dont want ya dude to smoke but he can't buy weed
    You got out to eat and he cant pay yall cant leave
    There's dishes in the back, he gotta roll up his sleeves
    But why yall washin watch him
    He gone make it into a Benz out of that Datson
    He got that ambition baby look in his eyes
    This week he moppin floorz next week it's the fries
    So, stick by his side
    I know his dude's ballin but yea thats nice
    And they gone keep callin and tryin
    But you stay right girl
    But when you get on he leave yo ass for a white girl

    Get down girl gone head get down
    Get down girl gone head get down
    get down girl gone head get down
    get down girl gone head
    (lemme hear dat bak)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Anyways!

    1. Easy on the eye.
    2. Spontaenity.
    3. Funny.
    4. Reliable.
    5. Open.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    someone:
    1. with a sense of humour
    2. with a realistic but optimistic view of life
    3. with a little romance
    4. who is easy to talk to (listens, is eloquent, not a conversation hog)
    5. who loves me and understands how much that is worth

    :) i have someone who ticks all the boxes, how lucky am I?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You wouldn't exactly strive to get a guy without any money would you? :confused:

    Ilora x

    Money doesn't affect how well you connect with someone or how attracted you are, so i can't really see the relevence unless you're in your 30s and looking to settle down.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that i find them attractive
    sense of humour/optimistic
    the click
    patience
    loyalty/honesty (they kind of some hand in hand)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Infinite wrote:
    Why must you defend him? He's the embodiment of pure evil!


    I'll give you a by though, since you're a fox :p
    I like him. So shush.

    :cool: though tbh. :heart:.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bums and hips, all the way
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thoughtful when it counts
    Passionate about SOMETHING.
    Quirky in a dorky sense
    Clickable, like Franki said.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1.Romantic
    2.Always fun
    3.Caring
    4.Eyes!! i dunno but i love great eyes on a guy (you should see my mans eyes!!)
    5.Honesty
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    loyalty/honesty (they kind of some hand in hand)

    Doesn't trust also come under that?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Intelligent
    Self aware
    Passionate
    Tolerant
    Good balance (so they won't fall in when I make them go kayaking!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    trust
    honesty/loyalty
    on the same wavelength
    same sense of humour as me
    intelligent
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On same wavelength
    Honesty/loyalty/trustworthy
    Nice deep eyes
    Will look after me when I'm ill/ feeling down
    Loving
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good looks are subjective, so I will not use attractive here.

    Open-minded.
    Intelligent.
    Good listener.
    Helpful.
    Compassionate.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hellfire wrote:
    but its not excatly one of the key assets you need in a guy, is it?

    I wouldn't particularly 'seek out' a rich bloke but I would want to date someone who could pay his own way in life. I'd never share a bank account with anyone, it might be selfish but I work hard to have my own money, so I suppose wealth isnt a key asset but him having his own money is.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1) Sense of Humour
    2) Hair
    3) Honest
    4) Caring/Loving/Romantic
    5) Loads of Fun
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kerrie wrote:
    2) Hair

    Really that important? :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its not reallllly important, but i like a man to have nice hair :P
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