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How old are you and your boyfriend, I'm guess you are in your late teens, it can be hard at that age as your parents can still see you as their little girl. Do you think you could talk to your parents about it and explain that you want to sleep with your boyfriend and reasure them that you are on the pill or are going to use condoms etc...
I've spoken to my mum about it before, and she's cool with it, after I reassured her about condoms and things, but she doesn't like the idea of us doing it at home. Which sucks, because it's my house too, and I have no where else to go!
you dont want your first time to be all worried about your parents hearing you.
Good luck
Jenni xxx
exactly. yea, the hotel idea sounds good. cheers guys :thumb: x
Thats handy to know.
Yeah, its called get on some BC and carry a condom. Theres no need to pencil in your losing your virginity night into your pp.
Personally I'd go for the hotel as you can both get away from your parents house and do what you want (and no more ) without worrying they can hear you. Although if you say where your going they are likely to put two and two together, although you could tell them you just played tiddlywinks all night. :razz:
I see your point, it's nice for it to be spontaneous and just go with the flow like you said, being safe and everything obviously. Because, what happens if it's all planned, then not in the mood or something? It's all wasted, or yea, I suppose there's always tiddlewinks! haha