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I'm a guy and i think oral sex is gross.
I'm 16, and my girlfriend and i have had sex, but never went into oral sex.. she said she wanted to try it and i said i'd rather her not. she doesnt understand, and quite frankly, i don't really either.. i just think its like disrespectful to have her down there.
does anyone else think this?
I'm 16, and my girlfriend and i have had sex, but never went into oral sex.. she said she wanted to try it and i said i'd rather her not. she doesnt understand, and quite frankly, i don't really either.. i just think its like disrespectful to have her down there.
does anyone else think this?
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I know whre your coming from. I used to detest it. I now do it and enjoy it though. My boyfriend on the other hand hates it. (giving, not recieving) He wont go anywhere near there. It used to annoy and piss me off, but now Ijust think, hey, everybody has their own tastes and opinions. Its not wrong if he does'nt want to. I should hope he would have the same respect if it were the other way around.
He's really into oral, he likes to give and receive. Each to their own!
also, its not disrespectful. its just part of pleasuring each other.
It's only direspectful if you :-
a) make her do it
b) object to returning the pleasure
c) force her head down and make her choke
d) make her do it when you are unclean etc etc
If it is by mutual agreement, it's not direspectful ...
Its not REALLY disrespectful, its only playing.
For me the pleasure of giving always used to be about power. Never is a woman in a more powerful position over a man than when she has his cock between her teeth. I especially got off on this one when going down on arrogant tossers who I didn't like.
But now I'm all loved up with a boyfriend so the pleasure is more knowing that he likes it.
And his balls in her hand.
At school I used to get called "Hoover": I was the queen of the "random" blow job, usually to guys I'd only met an hour or so before.
rofl..
seriously???????????????
what could possibly be bad about it?
And when I give it back... the best part is seeing how turned on and how much hes enjoying it! :yes:
LOL, and?????
as long as theres no wee on it at the time, whats the big deal?