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I'm feeling crap...
Indrid Cold
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I can't say it was a bad day -my moods don't seem to agree with the old saying "You can tell a good day from its morning". I'm just feeling a bit terrible right now, things wrong with my life have just attacked my mind and I can't stop thinking about them. Of course I can't do anything about them right now (or at all, really ) but I'm still feeling crap... I'm so tired of this life.
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so give it your best shot.
i'm feeling crap as well but mine is not feeling very well.
headache ...pressure in my eyes and ears ...something simple like bird flu probably.
Sorry you're not well... I still can't decide if it's worse to feel crap physically or mentally.
physicalyu ...a few pills and potions and a day in bed and i'll be right but you ...what you going to do?
why you feeling so crap?
must admit if i lived in greece i'd be pissed off as well.
I'm feeling crap because I need something to change... But it never does, and I can hardly see a way too. It doesn't seem like I ever had a choice, like all was predetermined.
from what i've seen of greece it aint exactly full of choice and excitement.
it's for old people and european workers to flop down in the sun for a rest from work.
move to england ...london or summat.
Try and keep ureself occupied and things won't get to you as much, and maybe something to help ure problems will come to you in time..
how heavy is your load?
maybe just talking to someone (professional) telling them everything about ure situation nd how ure feeling would help, then they could give you some advice...
I dont know if itd be a counsellor or something, others will know more... maybe things work slightly differently in Greece also but i'm sure theres someone you can turn to...
Anyway hope stuff starts to go well, I feel like total shit occasionally nd mental worries and pain can be the most draining thing... so gl
That would take money, and there are several problems with that.
But if ure tired of ure life, getting rid of it isn't the answer... I think finding someone to talk to is the best thing to start with, and go from there... even if it;s not someone you will have to pay (im no professional this is just opinion)
Then again talking about shit that you hate can be hard, btu it could be worth it ...
ure never totally trapped in a situation even if it feels like that, things can look up...
I never said that!
I know, but I'd feel bad if I did that, not because I hate talking about it but because I'd be loading it onto them.
That's what I hear for years now. All that's changed is that I'm older, and that's part of the problem. While most (if not all) others seem not to be doing anything more than moving their little finger and get what I want.
it isn't theirs so it wouldn't be heavy for them ...and they would just be there to ease the load a swhile ...teach you how to carry the load easier and even how to jettison bits as you go along.
'get what I want ....' this can be a major problem/stumbling block for many people.
what we want and what we need are rarely the same.
what we want is often unatainable.
maybe look at your wants and needs and alter the wants ...
The big question: Why would it be unatainable for me when it's not for (seemingly) everyone else?
The only answer I can think of: Time. I lost too much of it and I never had a choice.
Still, can't fill a gas tank with orange juice... Not if you want your car to work anyhow.
but until you cough no one can realy help out.
or just a general situation thing?
wise words..
The words are wise, but the moment I start thinking of this as unattainable is the moment I die (not literally). I used to think of it like that and I'd been feeling like a zombie for a year, maybe more. In a way, bad feelings (now) is better than none (then).
Sometimes what you need NOW isn't what you want, but you need that to get to where you want to be... Because if you're not getting what you want now from life now, and haven't been, then obviously there is something you need for the time being ..
Ok thats pretty confusing lol, but maybe you'll know what i mean
*edit* ...So maybe once you realise your real problem and what you can do to get around it, then you can go after what you really want
But if that is so, then either I haven't understood what I need for now or if I have, I still haven't found out how to get that.
Having a second point of view that can maybe be more relaxed and rational might help you find a solution
I keep thinking of talking to someone (a friend) but I never do. I guess it's a kind of insecurity, that he might turn against me like others I've trusted in the past. But I guess I have to ignore this.