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What does it feel like?
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Sorry, bit of a random one.
Just wondering, what does it feel like when you first have sex :banghead: is it addictive after the first time?
Loosing my virginty seems to be the be all and end all of everything! Once you do it, is anything different. When you first have sex do you want it more and more.
I realise this seems random, but for someone who doesnt know it bothers me...
Cheers guys!
Just wondering, what does it feel like when you first have sex :banghead: is it addictive after the first time?
Loosing my virginty seems to be the be all and end all of everything! Once you do it, is anything different. When you first have sex do you want it more and more.
I realise this seems random, but for someone who doesnt know it bothers me...
Cheers guys!
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Pretty much.
It also hurt quite a lot, but that's different for everyone.
My first time was really quite nice, it was with someone I liked and trusted, and I didn't have to wear a condom. It feels so intimate, it was great. Yes, it is addictive.
Some girls hurt the first time, but not always.
same for me. first time was rubbish really. but the more i've had it, generally the better it's got. i wouldn't get your hopes up 'cause then it might be a let down.
Im male. And older than most asking this question, hence the reason it's such an issue.
Thanks for all the advice. most apreciated :yippe:
Don't worry about being older than most asking this question, we don't judge people here.
I had to re name myself as i had problems logging in.. :banghead:
sorted now, thanks for the help all... good to know nobody judges you!
some quality advice :yippe:
yeah, that's so wierd. the more sexually active i am the more i want to stay that way and if i just stop i really don't care to if i keep inactive. i'm glad i don't stop often.
but yes, first times should never have an expectation because it won't go how you think it will. just go with what happens and be open about everything. i don't know how it really feels as i have to wear condoms, but my girl is going on the pill when we move in together. i can't wait for that.
I presume that this was because you were both virgins and she was using contraception?
Perhaps, that could be made clearer. Some people think that it just isn't necessary the first time because you cannot pass on STIs or get pregnant...
As for the question, if it was bad do you think people would ever do it again?
It was good that we did it, but it hurt so much i was brought to tears. He asked if i wanted to stop but i didnt want him to. A week later we did it again, wasnt that great, but better than first time, 3rd time getting good and from there on got better and better and now, yea, it is addictive.
Its just so good when you are with someone who you know at every second, doesnt care what size you are or anything and loves you, and stops for a few seconds and tells you how beautiful you are. that, is bliss :-)
Basically, yeah. I was a virgin and clean, I knew she was clean, and she was on the pill.
I wouldn't recommend it unless you're certain. You very much can get pregnant or STIs the first time, and virgins can have STIs too.