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Ideal Amount of Sex
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For both times when you're in a steady relationship and out how many times a week would you consider ideal for you?
in: Three times a week
Out: Once a week
in: Three times a week
Out: Once a week
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out, 3 times a week
When I first met my man we had sex up to three times a day every day for the first month. Now its 5 times a week, if that. Ever since I started living with him and got a real job we're just both always too tired and busy and it sucks
And now I can't even get him off more than twice and thats if its at opposite ends of the day.
I think its cuz I've gained alot of weight and don't look pretty
But rant over, yes, twice a day or three times a week.
before i meet him I was happy not to have sex, as I don't personally feel comfortable in having causal sex.
I know that does not really answer your question but it is the most honest answer I can give.
At least once a week though, and that's in the worst of weeks.
out; at least once a week (only getting it once maybe twice a month at the moment if i'm lucky )
its called contentment. most people put on a little more wieght when they get together with someone they like.
25lbs?
He says work stressed him out. His boss was a bitch. Well now his boss got fired, he got his job, more money and less stress, he even said so, and guess what, less sex still!
On the wedding night we're just going to go to sleep, huh
You said in the other one, even when you were married you had sex at least once a day. How did you manage that? I'm so jelous.
I'd love it at least once a day. And I know hes always said, never less than 4 times a week he wants (except when I'm broken of course) even 30 years down the line. but that doesn't happen even.
Out - Once a week.
What's wrong with that?
Because if I, or him, couldn't even muster up the energy that you no longer have, on just one single night, then I know my sex life is a sad pathetic shell of what it once was.
Yeah i put on just over a stone and half. fock know how. luckly i've lost it now.
what can i say i'm a horny bugger thats always in the mood, so was she till she went off with someone else. wedding night um... ours we had one of those double jacuzzi baths, a large bottle of champagne (drank about about 1-2glasses each the rest well bubbles feel nice i was told), camera and a lot of fun.
Yes, I was right, I do hate you Though I think its for the better. You are now my role model. I will do him as soon as I get home. When I wake up in the morning. All the time. You are my idol and my inspiration I will. If somebody out there can, I can too! Thank you.
My ideal will be a reality!!!
Why condoms come in boxes of 3,6,12 ?
A man walks into a drug store with his 13-year old son. They happen to walk by the condom display,and the boy asks, "What are these, Dad?" To which the man matter-of-factly replies, "Those are called condoms, son....Men use them to have safe sex."
"Oh I see," replied the boys pensively. "Yes, I've heard of that in health class at school."
He looks over the display and picks up a package of 3 and asks, "Why are there 3 in this package." The Dad replies, "Those are for high school boys. One for Friday, one for Saturday, and one for Sunday."
"Cool!" says the boy. He notices a 6 pack and asks, "Then who are these for?" "Those are for college boys." the dad answers, "TWO for Friday, TWO for Saturday, and TWO for Sunday."
"WOW!" exclaimed the boy, "then who uses THESE?" he asks, picking up a 12 pack. With a sigh, the dad replied, "Those are for married men. One for January, one for February, one for March........"
My best friend told me on her wedding night they just fell asleep as soon as then went up to there room. As it was only when they stopped running around all day and making sure everyone was enjoying the party etc. It was only then that it hit them how drained they where both pyhsically and mentally. Apperently they morning after was great.
There's a whole honeymoon for that sort of thing. Two hours sleep, and then crack on. Perfect.
Yeah we're had a few days to wait before the honeymoon. spent the morning of my wedding chatting with friends and family. She spent it shopping, with her best mate. was still exhausted, but i'm never "That" exhausted
And either way, I don't care how exausted I am, I'm getting laid when I get married
The best things come to those who wait. The morning was fine:p
Its ok I just blame the giggles on the drink, when I try to explain where we went. I well know for giggling when drunk, by my family and my boyfriends.
if we're staying together and up all night its always a few times, been up to 6 or 7 times if you include the next morning!
being young helps ;D .. the fact we only see eachother a few times a week makes it all build up too!
Out- 1 a week
Ideally, if I lived with someone I would like to have sex about twice a day, maybe more at weekends. In my current situation, 5 or 6 times a week would be nice.
Out- It doesn't matter, I can get myself off :yes: