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I've just found out that my boyfriend of a year and a half has been looking at internet porn behind my back and he said he found it addictive, but felt guilty about it and wouldn't lokk at it anymore.
I felt really shocked, hurt and angry - am I stupid to feel like this and do you think I'm over reacting?
I really want to know cos he says it's normal for men to look at porn, but I found it disgusting.
I felt really shocked, hurt and angry - am I stupid to feel like this and do you think I'm over reacting?
I really want to know cos he says it's normal for men to look at porn, but I found it disgusting.
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*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
BaRt
Live Life On The Edge!
Bart- I think a lot of women don't like porn 'cuz a lot of it is quite degrading.
It was more than fact that it seemed deceitful and he denied it at first even though it was blatantly obvious (we were on his computer and he'd forgotten to delete his history files).
We've talked about it and I told him that I realised I can't stop him doing it, though he's said he won't do it again. It just makes me feel that I'm not good enough, and being a woman I guess I can't fully understand the way the male mind works though I try!
Anyway thanks for your comments, looking back I probably over reacted.
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Oh annd I couldn't agree with the fact that you should be upset and annoyed. To me its inappropriate at any time but least of all when in a relationship.
[This message has been edited by ChunkyMonkey (edited 08-11-2000).]