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each step you take ...your eyeballs ears and skin are absorbing billions of bits of information ...is it safe ...is he safe ... do i trust this person ...can i like them ....all these things are pouring through your wiring without you having any awareness of it at all.
so the little bits that you do notice are diddly shit compared to the real ammount of judging thats going on in each and everyone of us all the time.
Not on the boards. You don't know how I'm treated so I don't know how you can even make that statement.
For everyone's information: I was just struck by years of thought when lipsy brought that up. I know she wasn't serious.
Might as well change the subject...
Do you get a PM when you're permitted a custom title or do you get another option in your profile? Is it a specific post count or is it how 'special' you are?
*here here* Quarfly you really do need to chill a bit.
sounds like my grandad!
And what's all this chilling got to do with it? I'm sitting behind a computer. I am another person when I'm writing. I wasn't aggressive in any way at all.
Check your PM's and that might tell you matey.
Jamie
I know you weren't talking about on the boards. You said that you were sick of being treated with no respect because you're young and I said that this happens to everyone young person so to deal with it. I never said anything to do with knowing you or what you have been through so not sure where you got that from my post
I think that was what triggered it :yeees:
Lipsy is what just 3-4 years older (guess), so i spose it pissed him off a bit being called a kid like hed said some dumbass thing :P
Get your finger out your arse and lighten up.
You'll be able to take jokes less personally when you're older.
yeh but you had a little bit of a rant
and its very much the rant a 14 year old could make
pretty much every 14 yeasr old goes through the "its not fair stage"
its just a saying, a joke! get over it.
I do not have the slightest idea of what you're talking about.
FEI: Everybody that told me to chill out and get over it didn't take my post seriously. I thought the board was about helping people, but you have all just made me a whole lot more frustrated. What should I say, congratulations?
If Morrocan Roll told you all that he was sick of people discriminating the old, would you act the same way that you did to me? If he ranted as much as I did (which he would probably never do), would you act like you did and tell him he needs a chill pill (whích, by the way, is the most childish expression I have heard in a long time)? Don't think so.
This is not about my fuse, it is about discrimination - which nobody took seriously. Maybe I am in a phase and I want to rant. Does that mean you should not take my point into consideration? Telling me to get over it and chill out won't make my life happier - especially when you use words such as 'bloody hell'. What has God got to do with all of this anyway?
Maybe you should try to put yourself into other people's position and try treating others the way you want to be treated - the golden rule I think it's called. I have seen several posts by you, and I agree with all of them. Just wonder why you are always so harsh when you post.
I know that I should have thought about the post from a reader's point of view - for that I apologise.
Lighten up? What do you mean by that? Please be a tad more specific. Oh, by the way, my finger is on the keyboard at the moment.
As I said, that had nothing to do with my fuse. I was trying to make a point, bloody hell.
Strange though that the only people on the board that actually thought about what I wrote and not automatically classified it as teenage bullshit were Morrocan Roll, Turlough and Lucifer. Anybody tell me why?
but you do seem to keep on reinforcing the view many do have about you, if you had let it drop then things would be calm
Sometimes older people still treat me like that though, I wonder if I look younger than I am or something. :chin:
i sometimes do forget what i was like when i was younger, does it make the actions any less excusable? no
does it make someones actions in this day and age excusable? no
And the term "kids these days" isn't always a reference to age. If my mate was asking how to do something simple I'd tell him how to do it and say "kids these days" after it as a joke. I'm pretty sure that was the context lipsy said. And you will get stick for being young here generally, most people are 16+ so might aswell just stick it out mate.
I really don't understand what you're talking about.
i know that does happen around here, but ever thought that if you are annoying people (this is in general and not directed at you), the problem might be that you are an annoying person, rather than just having terribly mean people on message boards
but ...like water off a ducks back to me.
one thing no one has ever suggested to ME though in this place ...is to take a chill pill.
they forget what they were like when they were younger? how does that excuse any current day actions of a younger person, who isnt even the same person that i am