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Why Did You Break Up?
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I've never had to break up with anyone... but lots of you I'm sure have..
So why did you break it off with your exes or why did they break it off with you ..?
So why did you break it off with your exes or why did they break it off with you ..?
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But split from my girlfriend before her because her visa had ran out and she has to move back to canada (i miss her)
Things with my next boyfriend went pretty ok for a while. Until he started ignoring me, treating me like shit in front of his friends, and cheated on me. So in the end, that was that. What little self-esteem I did have was stripped away to nothing... Meh, no one wants to hear this.
But yeah, that is why.
She seemed to think intimacy was the main problem. Not for me... I couldn't be intimate with someone unless I was happy with them. The lack of intimacy arose because I felt so miserable having such little control over my own life.
Left me for a better girl until he realised what she was really like then wanted me back. Yes stupidly i agreed but that soon ended i couldnt deal with it.
Then the distance problem.
BUT now i am finally happy and have found a very DECENT guy, so it's all good
I dumped my 3rd bf because his mates stirred things up and I wanted to dump him before he dumped me. Again, I was only 12 - I hardly spoke to him.
I've been with my bf now for over a year - we've come close to splitting up a few times due to stressy situations and a lot of jealousy and a lack of self-esteem.
You're the 2nd person I've heard something like that happen to ...the other one was a priest or something that got this girl to dump her boyfriend...
Its not just guys who use that line. but have to agree it is a crappy line.
Or maybe I'm naff at relationships. It's the last time I have a long-distance one relationship, though.
1 ex decided she'd rather be a lesbian
1 was just weird, and didn't know what she wanted / what a relationship consisted of
it's all worked out for the best though, been with my current gf for 18 months. it's all gravy.
ouch :crying:
that pretty much sums it up
i'm so depressed :crying:
other was, well she messed me around to much but it's all worked out for the best, Couldn't be better if i am honest...
The only one before that because i think i only jumped into it because it was the first time a girl had shown interest in me, and she expected far too much from me knowing that i had no experience with anything.
Both only lasted a month.
when we got back together after 3months we found out that the one night stand he had had resulted in pregnancy. we limped on for a few months after that during which i was very unhappy. then when i was in a bad car accident he wouldn't pull out of a cricket match to see me even though i had nearly died so i ended it.