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I GIVE UP WITH WOMAN
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Im a 16 year old who is pissed off because no matter how hard i try i find it impossible to get a girlfriend, they all say U make me laugh and i think, thats a good start. But then that is when it stops. Should i not try to hard or try harder. I think i would rather be friends and see what happens from there, ive wasted way too much energy on the opposite sex, ill just wait, that could take a while, oh well fuck it!
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I've got some great friends that are female. The three people I go to when times get a bit tough are all female. But I've never had a gf (I'm 16 as well).
I've had some rotten luck. Living in an expat society, families are always on the go. Twice now girls I've got really close to - and who have responded - have moved away before anything could happen.
I only got my first kiss on my 16th b'day. Sad, innit?
Reckon u should lighten up bout it all, chill out n not try so hard n not see it as some big thing... Y'all will pull loads more without trying to.... even gets annoying sometimes pulling when u dont want to..
But seriously I had the same problem until I gave up trying real hard... then it kjust happens
just b ur self, if peeps dont like it its there loss, not urs.
go out have a laugh, dont expect anythin, then when things do happen it will b a nice surprise.
ur only 16, what u want a girlie 4? u should b out with ur mates havin a laugh.
the time will come 4 the right girl, may not b 4 years and years yet, or mayb next week, u never know.
c ya love helly
Good luck.
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
This way you will act like yourself and not put on a face to impress the girl.
good luck to you
NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
I know a dog called Chica. Lives next door. That's what I get for living is CH!
Women! If they had brains, they still wouldn't use them!
Oh, BTW, I'm 30, had my first (of 3!) kiss when I was 23 and STILL haven't had a proper girlfriend! Man, Tom Cruise is beggining to look mighty nice...
Snowman
Wooohooo! Nice one, Mr. Turtle! I never imagined being insulted by someone whose nickname implied an over the hill 00.5 mph speed limit <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif">
What sort of lunatic do you live next door to? Must be a bit of a headcase if he names his pets after Italian bubblegum <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
I'll pretend you didn't say that, schnucumbs, I would hate to have to get divorced two times in the same week. By a turtle and a panther, I might add ...
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
I'd hate for you to leave me. :-)
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
Well, I guess I'll learn to love ya. I'll do my best. I'll enjoy watching the good TV though. I always wanted a widescreen. Don't hate me for it Panthers :-)
Ok. This is silly. Chic's, stop flaunting our relationship. I don't want a psycotic Pathers coming to our door with an axe.
Enough. Thank you for listening and good night.
Thanks Chica, thanks loads Panthers. :-)
See Chica, the trouble you get me into! I'm now in small bits scattered across my front lawn. Ew! Not nice.
Yes, but fuck all that. We are in second place mate! We're going up boy!!! Palace, Palace here we come!!
Harry is very definitely on the boat.
Anyway, I suggest that you DO leave off the girls for an 'ickle while, chrissy, as if you do poach one you'll probably just get pissed off with her for not being perfect while you're in this state of mind. Concentrate on other things, eg wombles, or take up a hobby. Whatever floats your boat (apart from Harry!)
Then chances are it'll happen naturally and you'll meet a girl who doesn't just want to be friends. You can quote me on that. And if you're feeling a little lonely in the meantime, you can morph yourself into mine and dirty_harry's secret lovechild! Hehe. You know you're the only one for me, Turtle! lol.
Later boys.
And good luck.It's a CRUUUEL world out there.
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
Chris, we'd never think that. Stop being so defensive! I'm sure you have many friends, and all of them are as interesting as you. Just try to relax about the whole girl thing.
If your having severe problems getting a girl friend, do you really think it can be cured by just posting up messages and hoping for someone to send you a sure thing way to get girls to like you?
Just relax. It will happen, and it will probably happen sooner if you stop making such a big issue out of it. Take it easy, take up a relaxing hobby like gardening, andthey'll be queueing up! Take it easy.
Damn where do y live chris...swear u most no me, lol
WHY CANT GEOGRAPHY COURSEWORK BE BANISHED!!
lol... I know what you mean though. And don't worry kid, we don't mind you getting pissed off with screaming/cackling/intellectually challenged girls. They piss me off too. I hate people who collapse into fits of giggles without even the excuse of Red Devil <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.