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HELP! i'm a nervous virgin
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Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm a 16 year old male and I think I need help...or some advice.
I've never had a proper girlfriend before and never experienced foreplay with another girl. But I really want to.
The trouble is I don't even know how to 'chat a girl up'. I talk to girls and have a laugh with them, but that's about it.
I don't know if they like me enough for me to ask them out.
What should I do?
I really want a relationship with a girl and I am not sure what to do.
I've never had a proper girlfriend before and never experienced foreplay with another girl. But I really want to.
The trouble is I don't even know how to 'chat a girl up'. I talk to girls and have a laugh with them, but that's about it.
I don't know if they like me enough for me to ask them out.
What should I do?
I really want a relationship with a girl and I am not sure what to do.
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You might want to get chatting to some new girls with luurrvvee in mind i.e. making moves on chics you're mates with isn't often sucessful (OK, so it worked with me but that's not the point!)
If it's not just a cheap shag you're looking for, (I really hope not) then just be yourself, smile a lot and just go for it!
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
WHY WONT THE LADIES GIVE INTO TO THERE TEMPTATIONS!!!
BECAUSE WE'RE NOT ALWAYS THAT TEMPTED!!
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
dont worry, i know its hard. but b urself, and if peeps dont like it forget em.
ive slept with 2 peeps, and i am beginning to regret it now, i didnt up untill recently though.
i met a lad on monday, and hes 18, and hes a virgin, i was well gob smacked as hes a cross b tween beckham, adam rickett and brad pitt so hes a typical boyband lookin guy, and to my presumption at the time 'had been around a bit' but to my surprise he aint. i think its nice and so we went out last nite again! he aint ashamed about it at all either, he laughs about it openly.
dont stress, it will happen when it happens, ur time will come.
c ya love helly
Helly dear, you poor, delusional girl <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
Harry is very definitely on the boat.
If ur not expierienced make sure u dont expect good looking girls, it's easier to pul;l girls that rn't good looking n u get expierienced...
The only way you'll find out if they like you enough is to ask them out.
Just be yourself, but take a risk or two, you might be suprised.
J9
ps, like your website http://www.geocities.com/weirdnetuk/
didnt c u posting a helpful reply, just making smarky comments.