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Is Shyness A Curse
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Y are some of us disadvantaged with being shy ,its a plus, but it dramatically affects our lifes and i myself find it a curse to be constantly worrying about everything which happens in my life which will affect how other see me...
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i try not 2 b most of the time, but usually i am, i do lack confidence though so i'd prob better try and work on that 1st. sometimes though i just dont give a shit, and that feels gr8!
shyness is nout to b ashamed of, its shows ur sensitive and caring.
c ya love helly
Just be proud of who you are. Most shyness is a result of lack of self-confidence, just don't worry about it. If your a good person people will see that, regardless of whether or not you're a bit quiet at first. Just be proud of who you are, and that goes for all of you!
Seriously, don't worry about what people think about you. If they don't like you for who you are then tough shit.
I must admit, I'm way too shy to ask girls out and thats why I went out with a girl on the internet and that didn't work but never mind. Maybe oneday I'll get over that hurdle and be confident about that or they'll ask me he he Like I've hoped all the other girls i've liked would do.
I agree with you. I prefer the quiet type who will respect you and not say to her mates "WE DID THIS AND THAT IN BED LAST NIGHT"