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Boyfriends pain
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Ok heres the thing for the past while if I give my boyfriend a hand job and he does cum he is often in alot of pain afterwards, take the weekend for example he was sitting bent over in agony. But he is fine when we have sex. Whats the problem? Does anyone know or can give me some advice on it? Im really worried about him but I know if i say go to the doctors and get it checked out he wont he hasnt been to the doctors for about 7 years. Im concerned and I think he probably is. Can anyone enlighten me or give me some advice please.
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As far as i know its a really bad kinda dead, pain but really bad if you get how I mean.
Probably worth getting a doctor to check it out. It's probably just the roughness though...if he wanks and shags without pain then that certainly suggests so.
A lot of guys don't like handjobs for that very reason.
Just a suggestion.
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Use lots of spit on the end of his penis (under the foreskin) (incidentally I really like the application of this with the foreskin pulled back but only do it once or twice or you'll dry it out again, unless you apply more spit.) (oh I guess I don't have to say spit on your hand and apply rather than just taking aim
Also be really gentle at the end and stop moving pretty much as he comes. (well maybe not stop completly by definately move down to the base of the shaft (without pulling the foreskin back). (give it a squeeze down there if you like while moving a little bit) :thumb:
This is just how I like it (and it guarantees it not hurting afterward) but I guess it everyone is different.
Right I'm off for a cold shower
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ok so the idea of spitting is a bit gross, but when someone is giving you a head, you get covered in spit (well i suppose its not quiet spit as you down spit it out) but saliva is surely the same thing really?
I dont have that problem he is circumcised. We do still use lubrication though.
Im trying to get him to go to the doctors but like with other guy mates ive tried to get to doctors i never seem to have success in persuading guys.
That would work on every male I have even know.