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I'm new to the board-and thought i'd announce my feelings by jumping right into the deep end.
I'd like to know if their are any other males here who have never had sex, and never had a girlfriend.
I'm in my 20s and i've never been intimate with a Woman.Infact, the last time i can remember kissing a Woman was when i was 13.
I'd like to know how other Men feel about the modern day Women who live amongst us.
Why would i like to know how they feel?
Simply because i'm becoming very bitter, frustrated and i'm starting to care less for Women (in terms of respect) than i have ever done, and admittedly, this is through jealousy, lonelyness, amongst other usual feelings associated with rejection from the opposite sex.
Do other Men in the same position as me feel like i do?
I know i may catch a bit of stick from both males and females for been so honest, but i think i can take that.
Thanks
I'd like to know if their are any other males here who have never had sex, and never had a girlfriend.
I'm in my 20s and i've never been intimate with a Woman.Infact, the last time i can remember kissing a Woman was when i was 13.
I'd like to know how other Men feel about the modern day Women who live amongst us.
Why would i like to know how they feel?
Simply because i'm becoming very bitter, frustrated and i'm starting to care less for Women (in terms of respect) than i have ever done, and admittedly, this is through jealousy, lonelyness, amongst other usual feelings associated with rejection from the opposite sex.
Do other Men in the same position as me feel like i do?
I know i may catch a bit of stick from both males and females for been so honest, but i think i can take that.
Thanks
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So don't beat yourself up about it!
It doesn't help that most girls the same age have had a string of boyfriends since they were about 15, and you would expect them to find you a bit immature or inexperienced for them.
To be honest though, I know so many guys in the same boat that I've stopped worrying about it. The last thing I want is a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend, and I think a lot of people end up doing this.
It doesn't help knowing that some washed up little tramp has probably had 10 or mor boyfriends since she was 16, and all they can do is laugh at you or make you feel like some immature kid.
I don't want to end up a mysogynist, but i honestly feel like you put in work to get respect from Women, but it seldom comes....only if your "cute"
Don't worry about the fact you are in your 20s I know a few people who are in there 20s of both sexs who have never had a boy or girl friend.
The whole 'you'll meet the right person one day' crap REALLY gets on my nerves, as does the 'you've got to stop looking, and it'll find you if it's meant to happen'...
Apparently i'm 'a really sweet guy' and I get 'I don't wanna ruin our friendship' a lot, also 'I couldn't bare to hurt you'...
I think it comes down to the fact that we need women more than they need us... (Hum-Tum, 2004)
Chill out, simple as.
From a woman's perspective, there's nothing worse than a male pig, so try not to become one else you'll never get laid.
I think everybody is a little insecure, but if you're that lonely maybe you need to work on yourself more too, happy people can give the most in relationships.
I'm 22 and never been in a real long term relationship, there's really nothing to worry about. We no longer live in a society where the parents arrange a suitor, neither will having a relationship get you a career or any further in life (unless you fuck your boss).
Yeah, I know I probably sound unsympathetic and insensitive, but I think anybody who seems desperate to get in to a relationship can't offer enoug to keep it healthy. Unless you love yourself a little, there's no way in hell you can love and express that love completely to another person.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, that's not quite what I said. I couldn't give a shit about the little tramp who hasn't been able to keep a boyfriend since she was 16. I was thinking more about my friends (none of which I really fancy, just as examples of nice girls) who've had four, maybe five long term boyfriends since they were 15/16.
I don't like that prospect, nor do i think i deserve some used up slut who wouldn't have looked twice at me a few years ago.
Sorry if i sound insensitive and sexist, i'm really not at all, but i feel Women can get pretty much whatever they want, and we have to be their at the end of the dark tunnel knowing she's sucked so much (Penis) god-because we wern't "cute enough"
Unfortunately you're in a bit of a "vicious cycle" situation here. As lea said, you'll struggle finding a girlfriend with that attitude towards women. But until you find a girlfriend you're seemingly not going to have any change in attitude.
I laughed at "modern day Women who live amongst us". I didn't realise this was still a man's world.
In two little paragraphs you have shown exactly why you cannot get a girlfriend.
You seem to be yet another moaning little boy that says "BUT I'M NICE!!!" as if it entitles you to have any girl you want.
Do you even talk to real life girls?
Contain my feelings?
Do Women not like honesty?
Ya know, it ain't all about been with somebody long term either.
I just want what most other lads are getting.I don't want to go through my whole life knowing i had only 1 Girlfriend.Let's be honest, 90% of Modern Women can't claim they'll ever have 1 Man in their life.
I think what people like me want is the usual acceptance and to be enjoying dating etc.
My feelings for Women have never been so hostile-and i'm a good natured person.It takes a lot to bring such hostility out of me.
I feel rejected and isolated.
Do you talk to women? Do you socialise with women?
At work, out and about-with friends etc, but i seem to be another one of these "Your such a nice guy" type of fella's.
And what really gets me is the constant lies.
"I want somebody caring, somebody who can make me laugh, somebody who accepts me for me"....And then they date a cutie who fucks them around-and who is exactly the opposite of what they wanted.
I of course get left on the shelf.
Yea, i'm moaning...i admit it-but let's be honest, a girl moans and people listen, a man moans and nobody cares.
I'm not saying i'm the greatest bloke in the world, but through frustration and rejection i am now showing my honesty and true feelings.
Your hostile because you can't get a woman, women won't like your personality and views like that, that makes you more hostile, that makes women dislike you more.
Its an endless cycle. YOU have to change something.
Tha's NOT always true... :rolleyes:
And Lea_UK is right - you'll never get a woman with that kind of attitude.
And for the record, I'm 16 and never had a boyfriend - this is mainly due to not being interested in having a relationship at my age...
I do hold bitterness, after all, i am only Human.
Could you go through 11 years of your life-constantly been rejected by the opposite sex and come out at the end of the tunnel with a big smile on your face holding no grudges?.....If so, your lying.
If that was aimed at me then no, yes a few people I know have asked me something about if I want to sleep with them, but I've told them no...
And?
Lose the sanctimoniousness and you might win some friends.
With close minded rude comments like that, I dare say youdon't deserve a woman. It's not the 50s your not going to find Mrs Cleaver vaccumming in pearls when you come home from work, the woman how lost her virginity at age 27 when she married you.
I know its only the internet, but you come across as an extremly rude, close minded, in need of a reality check bitch. If you bring that air about you in person, then the reason why you havn't had a woman is obvious. Maybe if you had that smile and a grip on how things are, you wouldn't have gone so long alone.
What is the truth?
Please, enlighten me.
Women sleep around, act like whores to all the "cuties" and look down on any man they feel is unacttractive? Is that the "reality check"?
I guess us Men just have to accept that your so- called sexual freedom enables you to act like whores-AND find a mug who'll marry and love you?
And have you never seen a couple? "cutness" is all relative. What I find hideous many others find sexy and vice versa.
Go away monocrat.
Oh so obvious! I feel all silly now for even bothering!
You sleep around and enjoy your sexual freedom to the extent that it really makes you no better than an unpaid whore.
Eventually, your going to want some mug to settle down with.Kids, love and somebody caring....and you still want respect???
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Shit, and you believe them? With the women you know being such good liars, no wonder you hate them.
I knew a guy like you once. He played World of Warcraft, watched anime on Friday and Saturday nights, and openly admitted to masturbating to elf porn.
Just because you find it impossible to get laid, doesn't mean the rest of us have to sit about waiting for you to catch up. This is how the world is. Deal with it. Failing that, move to Kentucky and start hanging around with women who voted for George Bush and have pictures of Jesus with 'BLESS THIS MESS' over every door in the house.