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Am I overreacting?
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Ok, so its cold, its snowy and dirty and my car isn't the best.
We have a heated two car garage. His car sits in there. On the other side is a credenza that he took home when his work moved buildings. He has absoutly no use for it. There is no where to put it in the house, he would never use the damn thing, he already has a desk and everything. But hey, free credenza, why not take it.
So my car sits out in the driveway. We live close to a busy road so no matter what, my car gets absoutly filthy within days. Now the cold weather has come and I have to deal with that. The dirty snow and the constant salting thats going to rust my car. Fine. My wipers ice over and when you just try to clean them they break. No matter how warm my car is the wiper fluid hoses are frozen and nothing sprays out so I can never see a damn thing.
I was mad enough in the summer with the fact that my car no mattter what could not stay clean. Now I'm just so angry.
I know alot of people park outside, I've had to also. The thing that makes me mad about all these little things is that I don't have to. I shouldn't have to. There is a damn garage to park in. But apperantly an inamate object with no use, no purpose is more deserving of the space.
We have a heated two car garage. His car sits in there. On the other side is a credenza that he took home when his work moved buildings. He has absoutly no use for it. There is no where to put it in the house, he would never use the damn thing, he already has a desk and everything. But hey, free credenza, why not take it.
So my car sits out in the driveway. We live close to a busy road so no matter what, my car gets absoutly filthy within days. Now the cold weather has come and I have to deal with that. The dirty snow and the constant salting thats going to rust my car. Fine. My wipers ice over and when you just try to clean them they break. No matter how warm my car is the wiper fluid hoses are frozen and nothing sprays out so I can never see a damn thing.
I was mad enough in the summer with the fact that my car no mattter what could not stay clean. Now I'm just so angry.
I know alot of people park outside, I've had to also. The thing that makes me mad about all these little things is that I don't have to. I shouldn't have to. There is a damn garage to park in. But apperantly an inamate object with no use, no purpose is more deserving of the space.
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To answer you question, you have reasons to be angry, as I would be too.
So quit whining
Edited to add: But yes, he is being unreasonable. I would've made him put HIS car on the front.
You DO deserve better.
Amen.
This was just caused, I had just gotten to work and had a shitty drive in my crappy car that started out with the damn locks being frozen. I'm spazzy like that.
I guess I can't stop you from thinking, but I swear. He has changed my life for the better. I have money, a nice house, a real job and for once in such a long long time I am happy. I know I wont' be able to convince you, but I just thought I had to say because I don't want, even people I dont know halfway around the world, to think hes a bad guy.
How about saying, "move that crezena from the garage so my car doesn't freeze up?"
That's surely the first port of call?
Edited to add: you did say there were two garages didn't you?