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Am I unreasonable?
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Hi all...
Well, things are going fine with everything. But, my birthday is coming up in two weeks, and my girlfriend is very very busy for like the next 3.
My birthday and her best friend's birthday is 2 days apart, and she only has time to celebrate one. She says she has decided to have mine the week before, and her friend's on the day of mine. I kind of am a little chuffed about it honestly, on her birthday I took her out the night before, made everything special, but it seems I am somewhat getting the shaft here on mine.
It's not that huge of a deal, but I just feel kind of meh on it, as I was hoping to celebrate my birthday with her instead of some other time.
Am I being unreasonable to be a little annoyed by it, or is this proper logic? :eek2:
Well, things are going fine with everything. But, my birthday is coming up in two weeks, and my girlfriend is very very busy for like the next 3.
My birthday and her best friend's birthday is 2 days apart, and she only has time to celebrate one. She says she has decided to have mine the week before, and her friend's on the day of mine. I kind of am a little chuffed about it honestly, on her birthday I took her out the night before, made everything special, but it seems I am somewhat getting the shaft here on mine.
It's not that huge of a deal, but I just feel kind of meh on it, as I was hoping to celebrate my birthday with her instead of some other time.
Am I being unreasonable to be a little annoyed by it, or is this proper logic? :eek2:
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What is she doing that's making her too busy to spend time with her boyfriend on his birthday?
People say that, at this stage, friends should come before partners but there's got to be certain times when partner comes first. Like birthdays.
Can i just ask how she got to choose when there parties/celebrations are?? :S
that's exactly what i was gonna say but you beat me to it
sunflower :wave:
It's actually not a party being planned, just an outing with us two, then an outing with her friend and like, 2 other girls.
Meh, I don't know, I am kind of pissed, but I don't know how to convey it, without sounding too selfish. Meh...
If I were you I would tell you how her not being there for oyu on your birthday day makes you feel. She can't have a go at you for having feelings, and especially not for telling her them. If she knows how you feel about this then maybe she will put a bit more effort in to see you on the day.
I still don't like it, but I -guess- I understand, I mean, if she didn't go, she would miss out on her whole birthday, but with mine, whenever is whenever since it's just us two.
Meh, I don't really feel like stirring it up over something like that, I might feel different on my birthday, but, I guess it's okay. I swear, if we're still dating by my next birthday, and she does it again, hell's gonna break! :mad: