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She wasn't eyeing you up, she was just startled about how tired and ickly you looked
That's what the wife said too:(
:crying:
It's always good to know people have wonderful taste.
:thumb:
not that i believe old guys....but.....er....i dotn believe any good looking young men could be attracted to me :eek2:
But such a thing never has happened... The only person who I remember ever saying I look good was my mum. In fact, a few weeks ago a group of 14 year old girls said I was ugly... Ouch.
Workie Ticket:)
Its subjective anyway.
Though when the very rare compliment does come, I say, "heh" give a look similar to and don't believe it.
I feel your pain:)
in all seriousness. I have a bit of an issue sometimes. I spent so long at school being told i was ugly, would never get a boyfriend etc, then when I left school, i kind of blossomed a bit and started getting attention, but it still took me ages to believe it when people said i was attractive, and still sometimes I think people are taking the piss, but im getting more and more confident, and now its at the point where at least I know im not a minger and can actually gratefully receive compliments and appreciate it.
*nod*
Kindof know what you mean
I wasnt good looking at school though, I was a complete munter. dodgy teeth, dodgy haircut, big ugly glasses, spots etc.
I was awful at school too. Same things, pretty much.
People actually said they were amazed when I got a girlfriend. I didn't believe anyone fancied me until I did get one, and I still have trouble believing it sometimes.
I still cringe whenever I see pictures of myself from school. I won't let the wife see them.
in 9 years i dont think i let my ex husband see a school photo, and im unsure about whether to let new guy see one. Just makes me feel anxious. Im funny about whether to show him pics of me when id just had Lenny too, as i got so big and fat.
I know she wouldn't care, but I do. I did look a complete twat.