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How can you change who you are?
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I know that may sound a bit of a daft question, but with things like being possesive or jealousy or even getting in moods easily, how do you go about changing things which you don't like about yourself?
I know it can't be easy, and it is easier to look as though you don't mind whatever it is, but deep down its burning you up, what if you want to stop getting annoyed by things that cause those feelings?
I know it can't be easy, and it is easier to look as though you don't mind whatever it is, but deep down its burning you up, what if you want to stop getting annoyed by things that cause those feelings?
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The trick is to spot it and I can promise you that it is very hard work. That's why you have to really want it.
I've done something similar with other aspects of my life and I know that eventually I am going to have to do this with jealousy and possessiveness. *le sigh* Staying away from the kind of relationships that provoke those feelings for now while I don't have time to sort myself out.
I didn't really make a conscious effort to change, it has just gradually happened over the past few years.