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What am I NOT doing ?
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now.He has just lost interest iin me.After our relationship became long distance he cheated on me and he was the one who said he wanted the long distance thing to work.He told me what he had done and now he just doesn't want to talk to me.Everytime i call he starts shouting and tells me i'm pissing him off.I love him but he obviously doesn't feel the same about me I don't want to leave him I really want this to work but something has to change.Am I doing something wrong? If yes what is it? Please answer so i can correct it and just really want to be with him now.
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he cheated on u, he wont talk to you, he shouts at you, and all the while you're trying to make things work!
If i were you id end it and when you're ready start dating other guys, closer to home!
What she said.
He cheated on you and doesn't seem to be very sorry about it. He's abusive, shouts at you etc. It looks like he's trying to take the cowards way out by being so shitty that you'll eventually say, "Right then, I'm off." But you're not, and it's pissing him off more, so he'll try and push you again and again to see what will make you crack.
As much as you love this guy, he certainly doesn't act that way towards you, and for the sake of your health, I think you should cut your losses with that one. You're worth so much more than that.
He's showed you who he is. Not once, but over and over by the sound of it. Rest assured he is not about to magically change.
That always makes someone seem more attractive.