Home› Sex & Relationships
If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Options

Threesomes?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
A few months ago,me and my boyfreind got really drunk.He asked me how big my ex's penis was and i said quite big,cos it was! (penis size has never been an issue for me though) Then he asked me if we could get someone to have a threesome with us.I assumed he meant a female and i got really upset.Now i cant stop thinking about it cos i keep thinking theres someone he wants to sleep with or something.Everytime i mention it to him he gets cross and tells me to get over it,but i cant.It hurts so much and everytime it re-surfaces,i get so upset. What do you think caused him to say this and how can i get over it?

Comments

  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000529.html

    here is another subject about 3somes maybe it will help you.

    i think 3somes are stupid, if ur ina loving realtionship, you don't need a 3rd party and i think u shud tel him that.

    Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    ~*~Emma~*~
    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Apparently alot of guys fantasise about three in a bed, so it's not unusual.

    Maybe you could convince yourself that it was good that he felt he could broach (?sp) the subject with you. He was probably hurt by your reaction & has now gone on the defensive so he wont get hurt again.

    j9
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah he might like a 3 some but you never know he might have said it because of what you said about your ex's penis size,

    i mean if it was me id say does it matter im sleepin wiv u not him or if he insisted id say no it was smaller than yours just to not have him paranoid

    he obviously has a complex about his size though if hes askin u stuff like that i mean i dont ask my bfs am i tighter than their exs or something,

    he probably was hurt or something n being babyish thought hed get u back??
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well 2 be honest wiv ya i think it is obvious that he wants a 3some but he wanted 2 c your reaction so did it when u were drunk. u r just gonna have 2 ask him if he does want 1 and if not then y he said it.
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    .
  • Options
    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the point here is that you were hurt by his suggestion, and no way can he just say "get over it" and that's the end! cos you still feel those insecurities!
    I'd suggest you sit him down and tell him you really need him to know how hurt you are, and that you're worried about it.
    if he cares about you he should listen to you, and put your fears to rest..
    We are all in the gutter.
    The difference between us is that some of us face skyward..
Sign In or Register to comment.